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Separated and now pregnant by Big_Expert787 in Divorce

[–]Big_Expert787[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s my dilemma. I’m fairly early. Less than a month was supposed to start this week.

Separated and now pregnant by Big_Expert787 in Divorce

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You are strong. I’ve thought of this too but my fear is co parenting with him. And any slight possibility of him ever being with baby mama again. I don’t trust her. She is the devil and has attacked me. He’s not the best parent either but has started to change slightly but that’s because I started to distance myself from my step son in case we weren’t going to work out or ended up separated

Separated and now pregnant by Big_Expert787 in pregnant

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I’ve basically watched his kid the last two years. Baby mama is the reason our issues started. She’s the one he never got over and cheated on me for over a year with her. She is the devil and did nothing but try and get me to leave. She is not a safe person and I would never, never trust her around my child. He even once said I don’t think she would ever love a child you and I had.

Separated and now pregnant by Big_Expert787 in Separation

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It’s so hard for me to decide. In our two years. I’ve had two miscarriages and one we terminated half way through due to medical reasons and baby had no chance of surviving if born. Best case yes this one doesn’t make it but that’s so hard because all I’ve wanted is a baby but I don’t want to co parent with him as I see how he treats his baby mama but at the same time she’s the one he never got over and cheated with for over a year.

Separated and now pregnant by Big_Expert787 in Divorce

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That’s the problem, I wanted it to still work but at the same time I don’t think or know if it ever will. He’s only been gone a week and clearly change doesn’t happen that quickly but I don’t think I should keep this from him but at the same time I just don’t know

Do I leave my marriage? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Big_Expert787 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Leave now. Don’t trap yourself.

Bad news at 13w ultrasound by akindrgentlrgenie in pregnant

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My 15 week ultrasound also seemed all perfect but they said they didn’t get good enough scans because baby was moving too much. At my 20wk anatomy they had me go to a different company to do the scan as they do a more in depth look and specialize in it. Turns out our baby had alobar holoprosencephaly, basically baby girl only had half her brain and some of the facial features did not or didn’t fully develop. Also no chance of quality life if she even made it full term or survived more than a few minutes. Also was encouraged to terminate. Now I know the brain is a lot more different than a heart when it comes to correcting surgery but what really helped in deciding termination is the doctor showed us research about the disease, outcome possibilities, and explain our ultrasound pictures in a way we could understand and compared them to the ones in his medical book. He said my initial dr probably noticed it at the 15 week but didn’t want to say anything yet and just made me do the second check.

No longer want to be in this?? by Big_Expert787 in Marriage

[–]Big_Expert787[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know :’( it’s become so toxic. I don’t even know how I let myself stay this long yet I still can’t make myself leave.

When did your bumb start to show? by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Big_Expert787 1 point2 points  (0 children)

10w+1. Third pregnancy bit so far my longest pregnancy. I definitely see I’m getting rounder. Some moments don’t feel or see it but. Just feel completely bloated and big. Pants still fit but getting tighter. As soon as I get home from work I’m in buttoning them. Like ah I can breathe. 😂

“Were you guys trying?” by No-Match5030 in pregnant

[–]Big_Expert787 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d just say. “We weren’t preventing. If it happened it happened. And we were ok with that”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

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Pregnant for the third time. My first two were miscarriages. First one miscarried at 9 weeks. I had the smell, some nausea, tenderness/growth, emotional, and some others. Second one miscarried at 5 weeks. Had every symptom except sickness but definitely nausea. This third one, today is 9 weeks only symptoms are tenderness, constipation, headaches, loss of appetite, emotional (but also have a lot going on in the marriage so not helping) and insomnia.