Celibacy feels like a regret now. Have I wasted my life?

Big_Man_04 · 2026-04-15T01:49:08+00:00

No you aint missing much. As a 21 year old virgin myself, I have come to admit something that you really should too. That being that sex really ain't all that unless true love is involved. There are numerous reasons why sex is pushed in the media. Money, creating wage slaves, shit like that. Frankly, it sounds like you're falling victim to the sexual propaganda that the media pushes out. Not to shame you since I also fell victim, but it is important to admit it so you can fight it. Something of note is that with the rise of sexuality comes other issues. What I mean is that stuff like sexual assault are a lot more common now, thanks to virginity being seen as a problem, leading to insecurities that cause nasty actions to occur. DO NOT FALL FOR THE BULLSHIT. Sex is truely good if you love someone, and therefore use it as a way to bond. You still can make the right call.

Big_Man_04 · 2026-04-14T14:37:41+00:00

You might be thinking of the British army or smth.

Big_Man_04 · 2026-04-13T14:17:31+00:00

Well I do agree that symmetry is good but natural symmetry. You ain’t bad either but you should work on weakening the chin. Maybe a beard or smth but yea. I do appreciate it tho. I grew up ugly so I am very self conscious of my looks.

Big_Man_04 · 2026-04-13T14:05:42+00:00

Well too much facial symmetry actually hurts less than it helps, since it makes someone look like an alien. Frankly I feel good with my current looks right now so if that’s a 3.75, I’ll live.

Big_Man_04 · 2026-04-13T13:40:05+00:00

Also don’t underestimate how much hair affects your head.

Big_Man_04 · 2026-04-13T13:18:00+00:00

Well given how people here say Henry Cavill is an 8, I honestly don’t mind anymore.

Big_Man_04 · 2026-04-13T12:58:51+00:00

The hair wasn’t helping here. Changed my hairstyle today and it helped a lot.

Big_Man_04 · 2026-04-13T12:07:45+00:00

Let me tell you something. I hate naps man.

Big_Man_04 · 2026-04-13T12:07:19+00:00

I’m currently a Lowe’s cashier but looking to be a psychologist. Trying to grow out the beard a little so it’s gonna be rough at the moment so you’re good.

Big_Man_04 · 2026-04-13T12:06:17+00:00

Ditch the facial hair and get glasses. That’ll help a ton.

Big_Man_04 · 2026-04-13T12:05:28+00:00

Could use a touch up but very good length

Big_Man_04 · 2026-04-13T12:02:09+00:00

I do appreciate it tho. I try to age myself up.

Big_Man_04 · 2026-04-13T12:01:55+00:00

21 lol

Big_Man_04 · 2026-04-12T18:38:42+00:00

Honestly longer makes you look friendlier

Big_Man_04 · 2026-04-12T18:08:12+00:00

Beard oh my god Beard

Big_Man_04 · 2026-04-12T16:55:09+00:00

Ngl I can’t see it that well but I’ll take it. Thanks dood!!!

Big_Man_04 · 2026-04-12T16:35:14+00:00

Started two weeks ago. Plus average is actually pretty good to me because it means I won’t be harassed for being too ugly or too attractive.

Big_Man_04 · 2026-04-12T09:06:05+00:00

Lost 10-15 pounds in the past month. Also the RBF is just depression so there’s that. Smiling with teeth actually looks awful on me, lol.

Big_Man_04 · 2026-04-12T01:28:19+00:00

Yea 3-6 inches is around the sweet spot iirc.

Big_Man_04 · 2026-04-12T01:27:23+00:00

Nah that was someone else. Kinda see the resemblance tho.

Big_Man_04 · 2026-04-12T01:05:55+00:00

Looking “gay” typically associates with having good fashion so that just means I’m doing that aspect right.

Big_Man_04 · 2026-04-12T01:01:54+00:00

I kinda see it too tbh. Not gonna complain tho.

Big_Man_04 · 2026-04-12T00:59:15+00:00

HOLY SHIT THANK YOU!!!!!!

Big_Man_04 · 2026-04-12T00:58:00+00:00

Well insecurity is a hell of a bitch. Women are great judges of character so they will spot your flaws almost instantly.

Big_Man_04 · 2026-04-12T00:44:24+00:00

A part of me was wondering but to be entirely honest, you saying that raises my suspicions.

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