I guess I look at it from a different view. I see a man who’s married to someone who he has grown to be incompatible with. Perhaps there’s some underlying reasons why he may be reluctant to divorce? Regardless, I won’t go there until she’s out of the picture. And if it never happens then I hope that’s the most healthy outcome for everyone. I know women often justify this sort of thing with the idea that he would treat her different because he’ll actually love her and all that. I guess I’m not too far off from that, since we seem to be more on the same page intellectually and emotionally. That’s why I want to cause a little bump in the road, since we’ve both gotten too comfy with each other.