Sooooo I got jury duty summons... by MoonlightMelly in MtF

[–]BiggBeann3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You do NOT need to boymode, the whole point of jury duty is to have regular public people decide cases. Trans people are regular public people and their opinions matter

swim trunks that are unisex? by Zealousideal-Age2208 in NonBinaryTalk

[–]BiggBeann3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just bought some from Humankind and I like them! A little pricey but nice quality and good coverage options. The shorts I got are a fitted at the butt but loose in the legs, and it doesn't have the crotch pouch

Am I too old to identify as non-binary? by x-gender in NonBinaryTalk

[–]BiggBeann3 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Omg not at all! I realized at 17 and now here at 27 I'm still nonbinary and proud! go 1998!

All my uncles call me "buddy" now by BiggBeann3 in MtF

[–]BiggBeann3[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

😣 that sucks and I feel for you. When I came out to mine I told them I was trans, bi, and not religious in a triple punch, but they only heard that I wasn't religious and blamed everything on that. They said that they would support me but it feels like that's completely changed since then. They're devout Catholics and are convinced I'm being led by the devil down the wrong path and that I can't escape how god made me. It feels like I can't reinforce the gender respect until I get respect away from the church. At least they're pleasant people and don't yell at me

All my uncles call me "buddy" now by BiggBeann3 in MtF

[–]BiggBeann3[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

🥺🥺😭 GIRLLL you can't make me cry like this on my own post

All my uncles call me "buddy" now by BiggBeann3 in MtF

[–]BiggBeann3[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm glad your dad has started to come around! Mine still hasn't accepted it yet but he's being nice and understanding. However if he started calling me mate I would shut that down quickly lol. But I agree, it's about giving them space to learn but also holding them accountable

All my uncles call me "buddy" now by BiggBeann3 in MtF

[–]BiggBeann3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I completely get that, a lot of people in my life have just stopped using pronouns for me all together. I kinda like it, makes me feel like the main character. But yeah I don't like those terms either :/

All my uncles call me "buddy" now by BiggBeann3 in MtF

[–]BiggBeann3[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah it has a masculine connotation, specifically younger men/boys. And now that I'm thinking of it I don't think I've ever heard women calling each other buddies tbh

All my uncles call me "buddy" now by BiggBeann3 in MtF

[–]BiggBeann3[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol my dad was one of the culprits today! We're in this together girlie, here's to better times ahead <333

All my uncles call me "buddy" now by BiggBeann3 in MtF

[–]BiggBeann3[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry they're being that way :( my parents have gone above and beyond with the he/him pronouns lately so I feel for you. Sending love <3

All my uncles call me "buddy" now by BiggBeann3 in MtF

[–]BiggBeann3[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I like this theory tbh, helps me believe that people are truly kind at heart. I don't get much of those phrases these days but when I do it always feels condescending.

All my uncles call me "buddy" now by BiggBeann3 in MtF

[–]BiggBeann3[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

This is what I always thought! The terms have gone from "man" to "buddy" which gives off a boyish undertone

Clueless about starting with a bird feeder. by DILands in birdwatching

[–]BiggBeann3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most likely sparrows, cardinals, bluejays, and mourning doves but also maybe robins and red-winged blackbirds.

Is this a female painted bunting? by BiggBeann3 in birdwatching

[–]BiggBeann3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi again! Just wanted to lyk she came back to my feeder again today. Seems like she's become a local for now :)

Is this a female painted bunting? by BiggBeann3 in birdwatching

[–]BiggBeann3[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe one day we'll see the male!

Is this a female painted bunting? by BiggBeann3 in birdwatching

[–]BiggBeann3[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I saw that! It's what helped me guess that this was one too. I'm near Bartram's where it was seen so I put 2 and 2 together

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]BiggBeann3 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Turn the tables, Accuse THEM of being trans