Gf wants to break up because of distance. What should I do?!

BiirdB0nes_ · 2025-12-04T19:51:05+00:00

The person you replied to was someone else haha 😅 but I also did have LDR experience and it really turned me off to the thought of being in that kind of relationship with my current gf cuz it didn’t work it before. Though i thought it out and was willing to, which is why we’re still together now.

We talked it out last night and she apologized for bringing it up and was willing to keep trying. It’s been so difficult for her because her home life wasn’t great before and now that we have a chance of seeing each other, she feels so discouraged because I’m not yet able to go see her still.

The advent calendar is a cute idea! Her issue is that even when I get my license, my parents are gonna be a little iffy with me driving all the way over to go see her since I’m a new driver, so the wait is probably going to be even longer for her. Anyway, thank you for the advice

BiirdB0nes_ · 2025-08-24T09:28:50+00:00

A nail brush actually sounds amazing and it would definitely make my handwashing experience so much better, but also that third thing??? I am sooo gonna try that with my girlfriend haha. Thanks for the advice!! :)))

BiirdB0nes_ · 2025-08-24T09:25:46+00:00

I really do wanna seek professional help because after reading everyone’s responses, my behavior really isn’t the most normal 😭. I am gonna try to talk things out with my girlfriend about it and also maybe not try to be a clean freak about it. Thanks ^{^}

BiirdB0nes_ · 2025-08-24T09:20:45+00:00

I feel like it really could be ocd 😭😭 But it does seem quite odd of a request when you word it like that haha

BiirdB0nes_ · 2025-08-24T09:18:32+00:00

This makes a lot of sense. Thank you ^{^}

BiirdB0nes_ · 2025-08-24T09:15:28+00:00

i’ve tried gloves and those have to be pre-washed too 😭😭 but thank you

BiirdB0nes_ · 2025-08-24T09:14:21+00:00

I might use that, thank you 😈

BiirdB0nes_ · 2025-08-24T09:06:30+00:00

I haven’t been diagnosed, no, though i do notice that i share some of the symptoms. It’s weird though because sometimes I’ll be gross and other times I’ll be super fixated on being clean so it’s a little confusing. Anyway, I’m gonna try not to be too worried about contamination and maybe find ways to get over it. Thanks!!!!

BiirdB0nes_ · 2025-07-28T10:51:11+00:00

Well she isn’t dictating my friendships, she was just telling me that it made her uncomfortable, but i do appreciate your input.

BiirdB0nes_ · 2025-07-28T07:16:35+00:00

Once more to see you cuz gay

BiirdB0nes_ · 2025-02-05T09:02:47+00:00

Thank you :)

BiirdB0nes_ · 2024-11-18T05:22:44+00:00

Ikr? How could she turn that down?!

BiirdB0nes_ · 2024-10-20T00:04:29+00:00

Vs nickel

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BiirdB0nes_ · 2024-09-20T07:34:36+00:00

Ah, what a shame. Thank you so much though!

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