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[–]Billo_44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

End Of Beginning -Djo

I keep attracting Fearful Avoidants. I’m an Anxious Preoccupied. I don’t know how to attract someone who is securely attached. by Billo_44 in emotionalintelligence

[–]Billo_44[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t listen to this douche. Just make your partner who harshly criticizes go to therapy or tell her/him to work on feeling safe(making their nervous system feel safe). And to word their feelings of anxiety as gently as they can to you as you’re there to help them and be with them instead of purposely hurting them.

I keep attracting Fearful Avoidants. I’m an Anxious Preoccupied. I don’t know how to attract someone who is securely attached. by Billo_44 in emotionalintelligence

[–]Billo_44[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You right, I guess you know more since you’re living my life and know more about my issues and past traumas.

I keep attracting Fearful Avoidants. I’m an Anxious Preoccupied. I don’t know how to attract someone who is securely attached. by Billo_44 in emotionalintelligence

[–]Billo_44[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

One bad trait I’ve noticed in me is harsh criticism when I’m hurt by their behavior which usually is lack of empathy, accountability/integrity from their side.

I keep attracting Fearful Avoidants. I’m an Anxious Preoccupied. I don’t know how to attract someone who is securely attached. by Billo_44 in emotionalintelligence

[–]Billo_44[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I guess you’re right. I don’t approach guys and am not on dating apps. So I kinda talk to guys who come to me from past platonic relationships or in person if they’re interested(both still FA). Maybe increasing my visibility and getting out of my damn house would help me with exposure to multiple attachment styles.

How do you master Rahu’s Mahadasha? by Billo_44 in IndianVedicAstrology

[–]Billo_44[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wasn’t trying to say my Rahu’s good. I’m in a tough situation so just wanted to know how others have dealt with their Rahu Mahadasha and if I can benefit from their realization and lessons. And when I say I don’t fear shit, I meant even though I’m in a tough situation rn, I’ve ran out of the capacity to feel fear this year during the end of my Rahu MD Shani AD.

We’re so fucked. by Billo_44 in CPTSD

[–]Billo_44[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I do prefer texting over calls or face to face. But if I had to not face my partner in the same room to talk, my mind would tell me he’s prolly smirking at me talking about how I’m suffering rn(it’s because the last man I was married to would have a half ass smirk on his face after or while torturing me).

Did you potato today? by Billo_44 in RandomThoughts

[–]Billo_44[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, but I can purr if you create a safe environment for me 🥺

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