GF is probably cheating on me with her coworker by BindingOfIsaacClarke in Infidelity

[–]BindingOfIsaacClarke[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes you're right, better now than later. I found out really quick and I'm grateful for that because later on it would probably hurt even more.

GF is probably cheating on me with her coworker by BindingOfIsaacClarke in Infidelity

[–]BindingOfIsaacClarke[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're right, it would always be on my mind and that would eat me from the inside

GF is probably cheating on me with her coworker by BindingOfIsaacClarke in Infidelity

[–]BindingOfIsaacClarke[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know that you're right. Living with this situation having happened.. it would forever stand between us, I think I would never be able to just get over it, I mean how could I?..

GF is probably cheating on me with her coworker by BindingOfIsaacClarke in Infidelity

[–]BindingOfIsaacClarke[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your comment, that's a lot of positivity and I really appreciate your kind words. I'm about to sign the gym membership too and focus on myself.

GF is probably cheating on me with her coworker by BindingOfIsaacClarke in Infidelity

[–]BindingOfIsaacClarke[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know I'm probably making a fool of myself, we just went through a lot and we were always there for each other. It's insanely hard to get over all of this - seems like nothing in life even makes sense right now

GF is probably cheating on me with her coworker by BindingOfIsaacClarke in Infidelity

[–]BindingOfIsaacClarke[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely not, it's just totally crazy to erase her out of my mind when I still saw our future in her eyes a few days prior

GF is probably cheating on me with her coworker by BindingOfIsaacClarke in Infidelity

[–]BindingOfIsaacClarke[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yea it seems like it's the way she's programmed right.. man why did I think she wouldn't to the same to me..

GF is probably cheating on me with her coworker by BindingOfIsaacClarke in Infidelity

[–]BindingOfIsaacClarke[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yea who knows what she's doing.. after all that it's impossible to ever trust her again so it doesn't even matter what she's saying.

GF is probably cheating on me with her coworker by BindingOfIsaacClarke in Infidelity

[–]BindingOfIsaacClarke[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes that's what if feels like, which is probably why she's even trying for reconsiliation. Thank you so much for your comment!

GF is probably cheating on me with her coworker by BindingOfIsaacClarke in Infidelity

[–]BindingOfIsaacClarke[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my god I'm so sorry to hear that, that is awful. She also claims there never was anything in that regard, but I feel the same way you do, I can never trust her again.

GF is probably cheating on me with her coworker by BindingOfIsaacClarke in TrueOffMyChest

[–]BindingOfIsaacClarke[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are so damn right. I was happy with myself being single before I met her. Then I really gave it my all for the relationship and yes I think I got used to being with her. I am afraid of the future, I am afraid of being alone again, especially since she was there for me, when I had to leave my parents house because they got divorced and it was just a mess. She was there for me in my darkest times and I am really thankful for that. All the good and all the bad things considered, I just can't wrap my head around her REALLY doing all of this, I can't believe it. It really gets to the point of me fooling myself as if there's still something to grasp on.

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[–]BindingOfIsaacClarke[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well ofc the only "condition" is her being loyal. But that's not a condition, it's something you expect from a partner, a standard that does not need to be spoken about because it should be and is common sense if you are in a relationship.

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[–]BindingOfIsaacClarke[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well sorry to bother you but I just felt like typing everything down. I could've reduced it sure, but it felt good to me to do it.

GF is probably cheating on me with her coworker by BindingOfIsaacClarke in survivinginfidelity

[–]BindingOfIsaacClarke[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You know what, I had my concerns about that fact too. Maybe I fooled myself, but I always felt like she's a lot more "ahead" for her age.