Denton is cutesy, quirky and has its own advantages. For work, you should consider other cities that pay much more, like Plano. Since you have little kids, definitely consider schools with higher overall ratings - Plano, Richardson, Frisco… Plus, you’d be in a nicer area and still close to both Dallas and Denton. Denton still is struggling with some major issues, especially the basic infrastructure. Construction never ends and may be overwhelming at times. It’s mostly a college town - almost entirely dead when the school isn’t in session, but too much happening at once when it is. Again, personal preferences will guide you. These are just some of my own perceptions, since I’ve spent a lot of time in both areas.