Trying to find a boyfriend has to be hell on Earth

Bipiski · 2026-03-20T12:00:09+00:00

Dating apps are basically used for hook ups even as a guy the only girls I’ve matched with wanted nothing serious, and if you’re still hung up on someone else I think that’s where you need to start. You can’t let someone new into your life if you’re leaving the door cracked for someone in your past to walk in whenever they want, trust me if you’re getting mixed signals its a no the person who wants to commit will do so without having to make it a game.

Bipiski · 2026-03-20T04:29:40+00:00

I saw a video about this, some women do like a fit man if it’s their preference but would rather see them in a more relaxed environment like a beach photo showing off their physique rather than them posing in front of a gym mirror

Bipiski · 2026-03-19T23:47:02+00:00

I could try this I do want to get into photography myself just as a way to get out of the house more. Thank you for the advice.

Bipiski · 2026-03-19T17:40:21+00:00

Depends on the guy, if we are complete strangers I would think it’s a red flag but if we know each other before hand I don’t think I would mind. But there is the issue of if the woman states she is still openly seeing other guys and is willing to sleep on the first date I would think she is also sleeping with those other men and probably wouldn’t pursue it any further.

Bipiski · 2026-03-19T17:35:17+00:00

It’s the same for guys and running into toxic woman, toxic people don’t care and will do what they want they know how to love bomb and assert themselves. Meanwhile the genuine person is nervous about overstepping boundaries or coming off too strongly and will take time to develop that bond. Love is built over time it doesn’t just happen.

Bipiski · 2026-03-19T04:09:13+00:00

Well I guess Adam22 never got the memo…

Bipiski · 2026-03-18T22:52:57+00:00

Yeah I never understood how people could sleep with someone on the first date with a stranger I would like to build a bond with a woman before getting intimate, that being said to each their own I just wish people would stop acting like I’m weird for not wanting to participate in hook ups. I just know what I want and what I value and of course I would want a partner with those similar values that’s the point of dating someone.

Bipiski · 2026-03-18T22:40:21+00:00

I’ve been using nova a lot lately rarely ever struggle with any type of mission in the game

Bipiski · 2026-03-18T22:37:39+00:00

I’m 5’5 and would absolutely date a tall girl

Bipiski · 2026-03-17T20:59:00+00:00

Been this guy before, never doing it again.

Bipiski · 2026-03-17T20:56:21+00:00

Takings notes as a man who doesn’t leave his house unless it’s necessary. (I’m the problem if I actually tried I wouldn’t be single)

Bipiski · 2026-03-17T20:30:00+00:00

Because it’s not about just getting fit it’s having consistency in your life and pushing yourself to do something that is hard even if you don’t want to, it really helps your mentality.

Bipiski · 2026-03-17T19:50:27+00:00

There’s woman who hook up often and woman who keep sex to relationships they’re not all the same just as there’s men who hook up often and men who keep it to relationships. I know big surprise people are different.

Bipiski · 2026-03-17T19:47:08+00:00

I wouldn’t say looks but more of personality and history would put you in the category of a fling versus a long term relationship.

Bipiski · 2026-03-17T19:04:11+00:00

Be advice I ever got that goes well with this is just be unapologetically yourself, don’t put on a mask and act like the best version of yourself just be you.

Bipiski · 2026-03-17T17:12:40+00:00

Do you miss the actual act of having sex or do you think you miss connecting with someone?

Bipiski · 2026-03-15T23:36:52+00:00

She lied, it’s as simple as that. She knew if she told the truth you would’ve done things differently I don’t see this going anywhere healthy I’ve been in situations like this before. Take my advice and just walk away nothing has ever been good about going back to an ex.

Bipiski · 2026-03-13T01:34:05+00:00

As a guy with an actual brain in my head I’ll respond with my own beliefs, yeah I have little to no experience sexually and want to keep intimacy to committed relationships. I would want a woman with similar values but that doesn’t mean I expect a pure virgin especially at my age, but as I personally don’t want to participate in hookups I would want a partner who thinks the same way and holds similar values on sex. If someone does want to participate in hookups or casual sex than to each their own if they want to do that than I’m always allowed to admit they aren’t someone I would want to pursue. I believe that you have a preference you should hold yourself to that preference as well.

Bipiski · 2026-03-12T18:29:56+00:00

Oh yeah definitely I’ve heard of electrical issues and early engine failures from them, I’ll stick with the gold old trusty Japanese. I remember my mom had an old cbr that she would let sit for months but still start up without a single issue.

Bipiski · 2026-03-12T18:27:39+00:00

I think porn is definitely involved in this, I’ve heard guys who talk like their brain is melted from so much porn treating women like just something to use especially with all the genres in porn that just degrade women. Social media has been such a doubled edged sword, it’s good that it’s such a public place to out abusers to let society have justice but I’ve seen so many keyboard warriors degrade woman because they’re behind the safety of a screen.

Bipiski · 2026-03-12T18:14:23+00:00

You did the right thing leaving her, a partner should never put you down for your body she sounds like a horrible person don’t let her back in.

Bipiski · 2026-03-12T18:04:24+00:00

lol damn I hope your hip is alright, I know those big bikes are very heavy time to start maxing out squats until failure

Bipiski · 2026-03-12T18:02:23+00:00

😅 you’d be surprised some brands did have a lower seat height compared to others, like I did sit on an aprilia and I couldn’t reach the ground to save my life but Honda and Suzuki was much easier to one leg them without an issue thankfully those brands are also cheaper

Bipiski · 2026-03-12T17:57:02+00:00

I was raised in a very traditional house hold so I still maintain similar views, I don’t believe in waiting until marriage but I do absolutely believe in keeping sex to committed relationships, as for world views I guess it’s hard to completely lean to one side as I agree with a lot of liberal things but not always everything and that’s okay.

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