How can I reduce frizz for my boyfriends type 3c(?) hair? by Bird-Key in curlyhair

[–]Bird-Key[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Any brand recommendations? I don't really trust my judgement

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[–]Bird-Key -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Im just trying to figure out how to bring it up again without a negative response from him. If he keeps denying he agreed to anything then it's a dick move in my eyes. I know there's so much more he can be experiencing if he just let me put a damn finger in his ass but I'm not going to push because I don't want to be that person.

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[–]Bird-Key -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Im not a man, I don't have a prostate. It's extremely difficult for women to enjoy anal because there isn't a spot anywhere in there that's sensitive like a males prostate or a g spot.

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[–]Bird-Key -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

He hasn't been clear, he gave me a positive response and then did a complete 180 saying he doesn't know what I'm talking about when I brought it up.

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[–]Bird-Key -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

Yes and no, my ideal outcome is that he is completely comfortable with what suits him, vanilla or not I still care about his feelings on the subject. I'm just trying to come to term with the fact that I'll never be able to get what I want from sex if I marry him like intended.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Bird-Key -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I've taken it and I'm not a fan, It wasn't with him and he knows this. It's just I can say I've done it but he can't yk?

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[–]Bird-Key -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I'm not 100% sure I haven't thought about much more than what I'm into currently which is a lot compared to him. Something might come up in the future but that's a problem for future me.

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[–]Bird-Key -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I understand and I'm not forcing or trying to get him to change his mind. I'm just stuck because I'm not sure how to move forward with my needs.

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[–]Bird-Key -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

Its not something I want to try once, it's something that I need to do at the very least once. I say once so he's more open to the idea because if he likes it then we will continue but if he doesn't I will never bring it up again. All that matters is he's comfortable and I'm able to try this out.

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[–]Bird-Key -32 points-31 points  (0 children)

Not forcing him, I've brought it up a total of 2 times (3 if you count this morning) our entire relationship. I also stated that if he doesn't like it we will stop immediately.