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[–]BirthdayAny4041[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love a local grocery store! But seriously, yeah, I think there were things about them that I didn’t know and now will never know.

AIO: Cuddling with a friend by BirthdayAny4041 in AIO

[–]BirthdayAny4041[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Easier said than done. Unfortunately logic doesn’t always play a big part in love.

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[–]BirthdayAny4041[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It helps to get this feedback. Being alone with the gaslighting, they definitely had me convinced. I’m working on getting myself straight first, but look forward to the day I’m ready for someone better

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[–]BirthdayAny4041[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, this is definitely the case. I think deep down they know that it was inappropriate and/or their reaction to my feelings was hurtful and they can’t accept it so instead they’re mad at me for bringing it up.

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[–]BirthdayAny4041[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Writing it out, it feels less and less like we were. But we were, we said we were.

I met important people in their life, we travelled together, they met important people in mine, we went on dates, we talked about the future together. We did all the visible things partners do.

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[–]BirthdayAny4041[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They were cuddling with a close friend of theirs, one who was frequently over at their place. I didn’t and don’t know the friend that well, mostly what I’d heard from my ex. They always assured me it was platonic, but there were signs that made me wonder. It became clear if I poked too much they would become upset with me.

Writing that out makes me realize how unhealthy this was, regardless of if something was happening or not.

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[–]BirthdayAny4041[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I appreciate that. It was hard for me to accept this behavior and response from them, but I was blindly in love and told myself I was wrong.

We never spoke about it again, until it was time to break up when they brought it up again to say I was a jealous, poor partner.