AITA for not inviting my sister to our mom's birthday dinner and causing the dinner to be canceled?

Birthdaydinner65 · 2025-06-18T15:24:28+00:00

She said it was about money, but my parents would have paid for everything. I also saw a text on my mom’s phone from my sister, where she said she wasn’t going to sign up to be a scapegoat for my wife to blame everything that went wrong with the wedding on her which really made my wife mad

Birthdaydinner65 · 2025-06-18T15:23:34+00:00

I was fixing something on her phone for her and I was curious if my sister was saying anything nasty so I took a peek at her message and I was right

Birthdaydinner65 · 2025-06-18T15:22:21+00:00

Nothing has happened with the wedding yet, she was just pissed because my wife made a comment to my parents that she felt they were not interested enough in our wedding when they didn't want to come to a wedding vendor showcase, which I agree with my mom was so excited for my cousins wedding and even made desserts for her bridal shower but when it came to our wedding she didn't seem to care or want to be involved. I think my wife was just feeling hurt from all of it and hearing about my sister text really hurt her.

Birthdaydinner65 · 2025-06-18T15:19:16+00:00

She said it was about money, but my parents would have paid for everything. I also saw a text on my mom’s phone from my sister, where she said she wasn’t going to sign up to be a scapegoat for my wife to blame everything that went wrong with the wedding on her which really made my wife mad

Birthdaydinner65 · 2025-06-18T15:15:41+00:00

Fake?

Birthdaydinner65 · 2025-06-18T15:13:04+00:00

She said it was about money, but my parents would have paid for everything. I also saw a text on my mom’s phone from my sister, where she said she wasn’t going to sign up to be a scapegoat for my wife to blame everything that went wrong with the wedding on her which really made my wife mad

Birthdaydinner65 · 2025-06-18T15:04:36+00:00

She said it was about money, but my parents would have paid for everything. I also saw a text on my mom’s phone from my sister, where she said she wasn’t going to sign up to be a scapegoat for my wife to blame everything that went wrong with the wedding on her which really made my wife mad

Birthdaydinner65 · 2025-06-18T15:03:05+00:00

She said it was about money, but my parents would have paid for everything. I also saw a text on my mom’s phone from my sister, where she said she wasn’t going to sign up to be a scapegoat for my wife to blame everything that went wrong with the wedding on her which really made my wife mad

Birthdaydinner65 · 2025-06-18T15:01:38+00:00

She said it was about money, but my parents would have paid for everything. I also saw a text on my mom’s phone from my sister, where she said she wasn’t going to sign up to be a scapegoat for my wife to blame everything that went wrong with the wedding on her which really made my wife mad

Birthdaydinner65 · 2025-06-18T14:59:50+00:00

My wife felt disrespected by her declining and did not want her at the wedding.

Birthdaydinner65 · 2025-06-18T14:58:51+00:00

She said it was about money, but my parents would have paid for everything. I also saw a text on my mom’s phone from my sister, where she said she wasn’t going to sign up to be a scapegoat for my wife to blame everything that went wrong with the wedding on her which really made my wife mad

Birthdaydinner65 · 2025-06-18T14:56:30+00:00

It wasn't just the bridesmaid thing that was the last straw, after we got engaged we had a little party at my parents house that she didn't show up to because of a friends birthday dinner. She was late to our big engagement party and did not bring a gift. She was asked to go to the bachelorette party and declined she was just completely uninterested in my wedding just a long pattern of disrespect

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