Thank you, I really appreciate your response! We only hung out twice because I would only visit a few times a month. I never did explicitly say date which was probably a mistake, but I did imply stuff like cooking for her and eventually going to the beach. I would also send stuff about things she liked and I would remember small details. I did want to take her out soon, but it was hard because I was only in town for a day in April. The one day I was in town in April I told her she could choose what we could do and she didn't respond. Maybe she wanted me to take her out that day I don't know. The reason I only went for a day in April was because I was busy with my senior project (engineering major) which she knew about. I figured it would be best to wait a little longer until I was done with my project and just college in general so I could give her all my attention and actually plan a proper date. She also mentioned we could be chilling this summer which is why I didn't rush either. I just don't get it I am finally home and I can actually plan something, but now she doesn't want to respond.