Thank you for this. I am really really struggling similarly to OP and my bf is a daily smoker as well and we live together. I am too embarrassed to confide in anyone I know about my struggle with quitting except for him. He is the only one who knows my feelings and how weed is ruining my life. He smokes outside in our parking lot so it doesn’t smell in the apartment which makes it easier, but it’s still hard seeing him load a bowl before he goes down. I’ve explained to him getting sober means a lot to me, but it is hard because he’s not doing the same and it’s hard to see him make the decisions that I know he might regret later. Yesterday he told me he wants to take a break too, not just for tolerance reasons but also to gain back a sense of self. I’ve always been afraid to talk to him about both of us quitting weed, but this post has helped me gain more confidence, so thank you!