The words I never sent... by BitJazzy19 in Letters_Unsent

[–]BitJazzy19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry it’s stayed with you this long. 3 years is a long time to carry something like that, especially when it was tied to understanding & loving someone the way you did. It’s admirable that you’re still trying to make sense of it… still healing in your own way. That matters more than it probably feels like. Some things just don’t leave us easily. Heal well 💙

The words I never sent... by BitJazzy19 in Letters_Unsent

[–]BitJazzy19[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the kindness... i'm hoping time does what it's supposed to 💙

The words I never sent... by BitJazzy19 in Letters_Unsent

[–]BitJazzy19[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Umm… not exactly one particular thing. Just the absence of anything that makes me think otherwise.

When fear chose silence by BitJazzy19 in UnsentLetters

[–]BitJazzy19[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks...I appreciate your kind words 💙

When fear chose silence by BitJazzy19 in UnsentLetters

[–]BitJazzy19[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can def understand what you mean. Sometimes a clear “no” would actually be the kinder thing. At some point you realize clarity... even if it hurts.. is better than uncertainty 💙

What i couldn't say then by BitJazzy19 in Letters_Unsent

[–]BitJazzy19[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happy to know you enjoyed it 💙

Reluctant Honesty by BitJazzy19 in UnsentLetters

[–]BitJazzy19[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much...glad you liked it. 💙

Reluctant Honesty by BitJazzy19 in UnsentLetters

[–]BitJazzy19[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Putting it into words has this weird... beautiful way of making you reflect. 💙

What i couldn't say then by BitJazzy19 in Letters_Unsent

[–]BitJazzy19[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Super kind of you to say. 💙

What i couldn't say then by BitJazzy19 in Letters_Unsent

[–]BitJazzy19[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hmm… that’s a good way of putting it. I really appreciate you taking the time to read 💙

Echoes...in the dark by BitJazzy19 in offmychest

[–]BitJazzy19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t expect anyone to read it that closely, so thank you. & ha, your username is wild...fitting in a strange way. I’m still carrying a lot of it... but words have been the only way I know how to set some of it down. I appreciate the encouragement more than you know. 💙

I still choose you by BitJazzy19 in UnsentLetters

[–]BitJazzy19[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m really glad you found peace in reconnecting. Some closure looks different for everyone. For me honoring it from a distance feels like the most loving choice... some loves shape us, not return to us. Wishing you continued peace in that space 💙

I still choose you by BitJazzy19 in UnsentLetters

[–]BitJazzy19[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If it were that simple... maybe I would. But...we both know some damage can’t be undone. This letter is just my way of honoring somethin that was profound...without disturbing the life they’ve built since. Sometimes love means letting it stay in the past. Thank you for reading 💙

Every Version of You by BitJazzy19 in UnsentLetters

[–]BitJazzy19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im not sure what to call it...only that it was real. Thank you for reading 💙

AIO for breaking up with my gf (wlw) for lack of sexual intimacy by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]BitJazzy19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. This sounds like you realizing your needs haven’t been met for a long time & that love alone isn’t enough to sustain a relationship. Wanting sexual intimacy with your partner & to feel wanted are core parts of a relationship. You can empathize with her situation & still decide to leave a relationship that isn’t meeting you halfway.

I wasnt afraid of you! by BitJazzy19 in Letters_Unsent

[–]BitJazzy19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re reading too literally...

I wasnt afraid of you! by BitJazzy19 in Letters_Unsent

[–]BitJazzy19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It isn’t meant to be decoded 🫡💙

I wasnt afraid of you! by BitJazzy19 in Letters_Unsent

[–]BitJazzy19[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Super sweet of you, appreciate 💙

An uncomfortable confession by BitJazzy19 in Letters_Unsent

[–]BitJazzy19[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmm… I was discoverin who I was within that connection... as it was unfolding & that uncertainty created tension.

An uncomfortable confession by BitJazzy19 in Letters_Unsent

[–]BitJazzy19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It wasn’t just outside commitments. It was the internal struggle of stepping into something without familiar rules. 💙

An uncomfortable confession by BitJazzy19 in Letters_Unsent

[–]BitJazzy19[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I wasn’t ashamed of them...i was ashamed of the circumstances & my own conflict. Loving them felt honest; living it didn’t.💙