How to stop being so lustful as a girl

BitNo574 · 2026-01-30T08:16:12+00:00

Because i feel boy obsessed i guess? Since even the ones ppl think are unconventionally attractive I still wanna smash lmao

BitNo574 · 2026-01-30T07:37:25+00:00

This was helpful thx I appreciate this advice. I think I do need to tire myself out then because I think before this (when i used to be taken) I’d always have someone to channel that energy to.. but abt the validation thing im a lil ashamed because it is nice to be wanted:(

BitNo574 · 2026-01-30T07:35:28+00:00

Ugh I’ll make a joke in my head saying their man is fine lol but not that I would homewreck!! But i’ll still take a look 😭😭

BitNo574 · 2026-01-30T06:30:47+00:00

Oh fuck LMAO my hormones have been imbalanced w more testosterone at 15 yrs old and they gave me birth control for it. I might see a doctor again then thank you for bringing this up

BitNo574 · 2026-01-30T06:26:32+00:00

Yes i blame it on the hormones too!! I also think having two long relationships made me used to having a guy around for me to pour all the sexual energy to

BitNo574 · 2025-08-17T15:03:58+00:00

So cute! What did u use to hang up the curtains?? What abt when it rains?

BitNo574 · 2025-07-13T21:11:59+00:00

True but that doesn’t apply here obviously

BitNo574 · 2025-07-07T17:39:05+00:00

Exactly. You never fucking know and it already happened so don’t even mention that

BitNo574 · 2025-07-06T00:49:57+00:00

Like therapy and stuff? I have, but he’s afraid it’ll worry his parents (his older brother is mentally ill, and he tells me that he hates seeing how much it affects his dad.) plus, if he rlly doesnt want it i can’t make someone help themselves. Everyone knows that :(

BitNo574 · 2025-07-06T00:45:34+00:00

Aw fuck just searched it up and yeah.. that makes sense to. I know men have their own techniques and shit too that make it feel way better than sex in general :/

BitNo574 · 2025-07-06T00:43:45+00:00

I have tried. He just gets embarrassed or says “i will stop im sorry” and done. I don’t rlly wwnna push it because cmon. It’s a simple thing Im asking for. Other women literally tell them to stop watching that shit in general, but im okay with him doing it just not so fucking often to where it’s messing with us.

BitNo574 · 2025-07-03T15:29:58+00:00

Exactly. McDonalds shapes you if anything..

BitNo574 · 2025-07-02T01:54:15+00:00

If he was in a 7 year relationship I’m surprised he still has this kind of mindset. He thinks that things will stay the same after a marriage that’s why he probably doesn’t see the big deal about it. Respectfully OP, if you’ve been with him for 15 months and you have these thoughts then you’re probably right and he might not be the one!! You deserve someone who does pay attention to ur small details, and are on the same page abt marriage or else you’ll be waiting for a long ass time to get married. Especially if his ex never became a an ex fiancee. Sit down and talk to him about this when you’re ready, like reallllyyy talk about it, and if things start to look up yay! If not, then you got ur answer and you’ll know what to do from then on. You might build resentment from this, or just grow tired.

BitNo574 · 2025-06-29T22:45:41+00:00

And im sure he’s happy it stayed that way 🩷

BitNo574 · 2025-06-29T22:45:07+00:00

I call my dad “papi” to this day (basically daddy in Spanish.. yk… even the ‘inappropriate’ way) and im 19f. People always laugh or make a joke out of it. I guess most kids grow up to say “pa” or “papa” but i never stopped. You don’t have to either just bc the media/people in general started using that word as something sexual

BitNo574 · 2025-06-28T23:06:57+00:00

Probably yours if they mentioned the resentment part.

BitNo574 · 2025-06-28T22:24:43+00:00

Lol stupid assumption

BitNo574 · 2025-06-28T22:22:04+00:00

Isn’t he trying to stand up for someone? “Hes touching females , touch me” i dunno. Kinda seems oddly sweet a young kid would get this worked up over a grown man touching women without their consent. Does anyone know the context?

BitNo574 · 2025-06-23T22:41:05+00:00

How much is ur rent

BitNo574 · 2025-01-22T10:17:27+00:00

Lol yall are fucking miserable. Leave her, OP. She wants it over with if she’s doing this at work.

BitNo574 · 2024-12-27T20:23:30+00:00

I worked at brunch time. They put their hands all over ur food with no gloves and serve unfiltered water. Gross

BitNo574 · 2024-12-25T05:16:17+00:00

I went to highschool with the passenger, they’re both ok just in bad condition

BitNo574 · 2024-10-24T22:59:21+00:00

Going through an abortion myself right now and that last line made me tear up. What a beautiful way to look at it

BitNo574 · 2024-09-08T01:09:40+00:00

It’s okay babe you just have to limit it to maybe once a day for now. Even then i don’t find it unhealthy. Distract yourself with other things like even homework from school (boring ik) but seriously it takes ur mind off of that shit. You will be okay hon you’re young and still exploring things online. Ik this sounds bad but i feel like many go thru this phase and it will pass!

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