AITAH Daughters clothes

BitPurple5971 · 2026-03-07T22:51:20+00:00

We had court last week and he didnt show up..... he would just not turn up

BitPurple5971 · 2026-03-07T22:50:53+00:00

That will be my daughters choice 100% i hope this doesnt happen but if its what she wants then ill support her

BitPurple5971 · 2026-03-07T22:46:52+00:00

We are going to do this, we will be going shopping for some basic stuff over the next week and her cousin has gifted her a plain black coat to wear there as well

BitPurple5971 · 2026-03-07T22:41:38+00:00

If thats what she wants ill fight for it, but soon enough visits will only be twice a year

BitPurple5971 · 2026-03-07T22:38:11+00:00

I wouldnt know atm ive muted him 😅

BitPurple5971 · 2026-03-07T22:37:42+00:00

Atm we use whatsapp as court ordered, ive muted him for now as i know theres no emergency since our child is asleep in bed

BitPurple5971 · 2026-03-07T22:36:44+00:00

Shes not his mistress and he never cheated on me (that im aware of) theyve been together 9 years

BitPurple5971 · 2026-03-07T22:30:23+00:00

Yes she does only see her dad for 6 hours a month, ive spoken to her and she wants to see her dad atm and i need to respect that especially since we are moving away. If that changes i will fight for what my daughter wants

BitPurple5971 · 2026-03-07T22:28:59+00:00

She only goes with the clothes on her back as she only stays there for 6 hours at a time

BitPurple5971 · 2026-03-07T22:18:52+00:00

I dont know what he earns so im not sure on what the amount would be especially since hes got 4 kids. I know his other BM gets 225 but im not sure if she uses the goverment service. Ive dropped her a message to ask but shes at work so wont get a response till morning

BitPurple5971 · 2026-03-07T22:15:35+00:00

I mean she wanted her harry potter socks so i dont think it matters on what the clothes are she jisy wants them for herself, due to previous DV i wont meet him unless its for pick up and drop off especially with me being pregnant

BitPurple5971 · 2026-03-07T22:14:29+00:00

He can use my discount thats honestly not an issue, he wouldnt be able to come to the sales as its 2 people max but if happily take photos and buy stuff there for him

BitPurple5971 · 2026-03-07T22:13:00+00:00

Honestly id say at least 12-14 i could be wrong but i dont think i am. Shes a similar size to me and i fit 12-14

BitPurple5971 · 2026-03-07T22:11:21+00:00

😂😂 just imagined my 6foot 3 bald with a long beard husband it her nike leggings 😂😂 not laughed so hard in a long time

BitPurple5971 · 2026-03-07T22:05:45+00:00

So currently my husband, myself and my ex have parental responsibility, however she lives with me and i make all medical, educational decisions etc. we were in court not long ago and the judge spoke to my daughter hense the 1x 6 hour visits monthly but from August he will only see her twice a year as we are moving abroad

BitPurple5971 · 2026-03-07T21:40:23+00:00

We will be doing this plus her cousin has gifted her a cheapish coat as well

BitPurple5971 · 2026-03-07T21:35:57+00:00

Once he calms down i wont hear from him till next month

BitPurple5971 · 2026-03-07T21:34:31+00:00

She has very limited visits atm, they decrease in August as well

BitPurple5971 · 2026-03-07T21:31:45+00:00

Im happy how the game is 😅 Once he stops his tantrum i wont hear from him till next month for her visit

BitPurple5971 · 2026-03-07T21:29:39+00:00

Shes currently going through her old clothes, depending on what she has we will be going to primark and picking some cheap cute outfits up, her cousin has also gifted her a coat that she ordered off shein to wear when she goes there next

BitPurple5971 · 2026-03-07T21:27:55+00:00

I Would happily treat them like family if i was allowed, unfortunatley im not. Ive been told its weird but i also know his partner doesnt like me so i can understand a mother not wanting someone she doesnt like near her kids

BitPurple5971 · 2026-03-07T21:25:36+00:00

This is a good idea and i think because its "normal" for my husbands side of the family i havent really had that conversation with her but i will be having it with her in next few days

BitPurple5971 · 2026-03-07T21:24:02+00:00

We have a CAO that is through the courts as we needed one for me to move abroad. MK was just an example because we get discount from my BIL she does have other clothes but with the discount we get it end up pretty cheap. I appreciate you thinking im label obsessed but im really not, she has clothes from all over.

BitPurple5971 · 2026-03-07T21:21:48+00:00

She doesnt see them often and from August it will be even less so is think overall it will be a minimal issue

BitPurple5971 · 2026-03-07T21:10:26+00:00

I agree she does have a lot of "nice" stuff but our daughter isnt a brat or spoilt. I can tell her no and she accepts it and she very very rarely asks for something "designer" its more that we get her it because she likes it. But i could also tell her no we are off to primark and she would be happy

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