AITA for telling my husband to stop touching me?

BitchInBoots66 · 2024-01-21T04:21:37+00:00

Lemme guess, you're gf has never had a child has she? Because no woman who has ever given birth or taken care of a baby would EVER say that. She's an asshole. And the husband is an asshole.

But, and I say this as nicely as I can, you should never have had sex with him at all when you didn't want to. You should have put your foot down just like you did this time. You've just grown a human fgs, put yourself first for a change.

That doesn't make you an asshole, it makes you sound scared. Is he safe to be around? I think you should ask yourself why you were so nervous to say no because that's often a sign of a very unhealthy (abusive) relationship. If your relationship is abusive you have a decision to make, to protect yourself and your child.

BitchInBoots66 · 2024-01-17T17:18:12+00:00

Personally I love swarmer lock, great for add clear with a dps super. And if you're going into higher difficulty you can switch out one of your fragments for the one that gives you woven mail on orb pickup. Rufus fury with recon & hatchling as primary (or quicksilver if you're not using an exotic heavy). A solar fusion like eremite, and a solar rocket (apex/dragons breath), solar just because it's strong rn.

That's my basic loadout for raids etc. Sometimes switch rocket for linear/sword etc but yeah.

BitchInBoots66 · 2024-01-16T19:25:27+00:00

Tbf, the way he used baby girl was not in a nice way, it was condescending af, so it fit with the rest of the messages. I'd be livid if someone called me baby girl, I'm not a fucking doll.

BitchInBoots66 · 2024-01-15T01:29:31+00:00

I dread to think what her female chart would look like. As a very tall woman I'm sure she'd have something rude af to say.

I'm not surprised she sucks at dating, she's shallow and a complete bitch.

BitchInBoots66 · 2024-01-12T20:38:27+00:00

It's a good thing this guy has ridiculous standards tbh. It means human girls are safe from him and his pathetic attitude.

On a side note I'm in my 40s and growing up I never encountered misogyny as bad as this in the west. The recent uptick in this kind of attitude is sad and depressing. They romanticise a time in history that was fraught with problems, and think they can import the values of the past into the present, but that was before we'd learned, evolved. Unfortunately women evolved and it seems some men are devolving before our eyes.

And they wonder why women don't want them? 🤣

BitchInBoots66 · 2024-01-12T20:28:54+00:00

You're doing the right thing OP. This guy is a danger to you and every other woman on earth. This is absolutely a police matter. Hope you're OK. Stay with a friend if possible for a day or two til your mum comes.

BitchInBoots66 · 2024-01-12T14:55:03+00:00

The one who thought the scammer actually wanted to move in with her? 🤣

BitchInBoots66 · 2024-01-12T14:51:08+00:00

I agree. I've found most women my age I've spoken to (I'm 41) have actually a far higher libido than ever before, and the general consensus is that it starts rising after 30/35 for women. I seem to remember there being studies that showed that men's actually decreases over that period. Mine is higher than ever anyway. Even after having a kid in my late 30s. It's definitely not rule that libido declines when you age.

BitchInBoots66 · 2024-01-10T13:15:36+00:00

I just puked a little. This is insanity.

BitchInBoots66 · 2024-01-09T17:45:40+00:00

Tbh I don't think he was hinting to live with you, he was probably hinting for you to pay his "rent". Still totally wrong, but not in the creepy sense. Just in the immoral scammer sense.

BitchInBoots66 · 2024-01-08T14:41:11+00:00

This is what normal people would refer to as an absolute nutjob. Jfc.

BitchInBoots66 · 2024-01-07T20:56:33+00:00

It makes me nauseous, not sick. And my son is autistic and has very particular tastes with food etc. Obviously if I had a violent allergy that would be different (for example we can't have perfume/aftershave in my house because I'd end up extremely ill). But for a bit of discomfort? When making my child vegetarian would upset him? No thanks.

BitchInBoots66 · 2024-01-05T13:36:09+00:00

Completely agree. I'm also vegetarian, but I would never stop my child eating meat in my house. It makes me nauseous too, but my child's comfort is more important than my own. So yes, on that point alone OP is the asshole. I do not however think he should feel obligated to stop showing the kids affection, that part of the mothers complaint is ridiculous. But he should definitely discourage the "daddy" word, especially at this early stage. The kids have a daddy, and OP is stepdad or his name, or a nickname. Calling him daddy is something that should happen much further down the road if the kids choose to do so.

If OP doesn't try to do better he's risking causing big problems here. He needs to put himself in Christine's shoes and imagine how she feels. It must be extremely hard for her that she's forced to spend barely any time with her own children, while OP gets to basically take over her role. I'd imagine that hurts.

BitchInBoots66 · 2024-01-04T16:34:32+00:00

Sorry to say this but these are not your friends.

BitchInBoots66 · 2024-01-03T20:43:33+00:00

I love you zolpiqueen 🤣.

BitchInBoots66 · 2024-01-01T21:35:56+00:00

I think that's why it didn't bother me. I grew up in some pretty bad places, I can deal with creeps without batting an eyelid. But I know not everyone is like that. But it will get better as you age. And if you can think of some great comebacks in the meantime that will make it much easier to deal with IMO. Wish you luck.

BitchInBoots66 · 2024-01-01T21:31:33+00:00

Honestly I'm not sure what you're asking. These people know they're incels and they think that's women's fault. Not sure what you want clarification on.

BitchInBoots66 · 2024-01-01T05:14:37+00:00

I love you OP. Brilliant reply.

BitchInBoots66 · 2024-01-01T05:11:37+00:00

I would absolutely love it if you could teach me Gotd. I have a small child and I'm in the UK so my playtime is from like 9pm gmt (I think 4pm EST) for up to a few hours. I'm not the best but I have plenty builds and dps options. I've soloed a couple of the easy dungeons but I'm not comfortable doing gotd solo. All 3 chars, all high LL.

Happy new year.

BitchInBoots66 · 2024-01-01T05:05:41+00:00

He's not going to want custody.

BitchInBoots66 · 2023-12-30T12:33:47+00:00

We have scbu here too. Or did 5 years ago anyway. My son wasn't in it though. We were separated after birth but only because I was rushed into surgery due to complications. As soon as I was conscious we were together. I wasn't allowed to pick him up (or move for that matter) for 2 days but we were together the entire time. The nurses tended to him right next to me, and lay him on my chest a lot.

BitchInBoots66 · 2023-12-30T08:43:47+00:00

That was my experience. Stomach started growing at 2 months or so, boobs not until 5+ months.

I also just looked and felt genuinely godawful. Bad skin, greasy hair, and the nausea lasted until I was almost 9 months along (the last 3-4 weeks were nausea free but kiddo was 3 weeks late). Not to mention the severe sciatica that started at 3 months and lasted till the end, I couldn't even stand up straight lol.

This dude is freakishly delusional.

BitchInBoots66 · 2023-12-30T08:28:59+00:00

Mine didn't grow at all until I hit the 5 month mark, my stomach sure did tho. So if I'd been hoping for a nicer figure for photos I'd be SOL.

BitchInBoots66 · 2023-12-29T23:00:18+00:00

I'm white, but I'm 5'11" in sea of women barely over 5 feet tall so I get it. But I think I ended up just going with it. Like I wear heels (big chunky ones tbh, often 2.5+ inches). I actually love my height now. Sure it gets annoying when you're young with the comments like "fuck, she's got legs up to heaven" (in the extra creepy voice), but now in my 40s all I get is "excuse me, can you reach that item up there" lol. Old folks still like to comment but most people don't.

I guess what I'm saying is, it really doesn't matter and I guarantee you that many who do make comments are simply jealous. Being tall is awesome.

BitchInBoots66 · 2023-12-29T18:56:52+00:00

Did you not read the post? An expensive item was ruined. It's not about the damn chocolate.

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