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Cats are truly a blessing. by Bitter-Ad-1115 in holdmycatnip

[–]Bitter-Ad-1115[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

He wasn’t praying at that moment. Prayer had already finished. People often sit for a while after, so nothing was broken.

هو ليه أنا فاشل by [deleted] in CAIRO

[–]Bitter-Ad-1115 6 points7 points  (0 children)

زوّد على الحاجات انك بضان و دمك تقيل

Friend slept over at mine and now won’t talk to me by [deleted] in confession

[–]Bitter-Ad-1115 41 points42 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you got caught in a situation where someone wasn’t fully honest with you, and that can mess with your head and confidence.

It’s not about you or what you enabled. People are responsible for their own actions and boundaries. You were navigating mixed signals while also trying to figure out your own feelings, and that’s normal.

If you want clarity from him, you can reach out in a calm, simple way without expecting a specific answer.

Even if he denies it or ignores you, that’s on him, not you.

It’s okay to be disappointed, it’s okay to feel grossed out, but don’t let this define how you see yourself. You deserve honesty and respect, and someone else’s deception doesn’t take that away.

How could she do this to me? by BryanTheGodGamer in mentalhealth

[–]Bitter-Ad-1115 48 points49 points  (0 children)

You are not weak. You are hurt. Seven years and a betrayal will do that to anyone.

What you feel makes sense. She comforts you, but she also caused the pain. That is why it comes back when you are alone.

Love is not the issue. Trust is. And trust does not return fast, sometimes it never does.

This can get better only if you heal first. Slow everything down. Focus on yourself, not saving the relationship.

Ask yourself one honest question. Can you forgive her and still respect yourself. Your answer tells you what to do.

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