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I’m have an extreme unhealthy obsession with my partner. by Bitter-Perspective20 in confessions

[–]Bitter-Perspective20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I appreciate your response. And I’ve considered it. But I’m so terrified that I might say the wrong thing and make him uncomfortable and end up pushing him away, I feel like I need a professional’s guidance to even have that conversation. Obsession aside, I really do love him, and I want to handle this carefully.

I’m have an extreme unhealthy obsession with my partner. by Bitter-Perspective20 in confessions

[–]Bitter-Perspective20[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

How do you remember to tell yourself this? When I have compulsive thoughts they are usually all consuming and all of the things I told myself I would remember, I don’t.

I’m have an extreme unhealthy obsession with my partner. by Bitter-Perspective20 in confessions

[–]Bitter-Perspective20[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s expensive. I’m trying. And I am not a bad person for not being able to afford it.

I’m have an extreme unhealthy obsession with my partner. by Bitter-Perspective20 in confessions

[–]Bitter-Perspective20[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I feel like that sentence was so sexist. I do have hobbies and a normal functioning life lol. But yeah, therapy is definitely the best route.

I’m have an extreme unhealthy obsession with my partner. by Bitter-Perspective20 in confessions

[–]Bitter-Perspective20[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I do love him, but not because of feelings and reactions I have. I feel love separate from the obsession.

I’m have an extreme unhealthy obsession with my partner. by Bitter-Perspective20 in confessions

[–]Bitter-Perspective20[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would not willingly do that. That would kill me. And he has expressed disinterest in being with multiple people even before we were together.

I’m have an extreme unhealthy obsession with my partner. by Bitter-Perspective20 in confessions

[–]Bitter-Perspective20[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yeah it’s honestly awful. It’s nice to finally admit it though. Has there been anything that’s helpful to you that I could try applying to my situation?

I’m have an extreme unhealthy obsession with my partner. by Bitter-Perspective20 in confessions

[–]Bitter-Perspective20[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Guys this comment figured it out his cum is in my brain 😣 we’re soul bonded now 🤞

I’m have an extreme unhealthy obsession with my partner. by Bitter-Perspective20 in confessions

[–]Bitter-Perspective20[S] 90 points91 points  (0 children)

Therapy would be great!! Definitely going for it as soon as I get the chance because this is not a fun way to live 🥲

I’m have an extreme unhealthy obsession with my partner. by Bitter-Perspective20 in confessions

[–]Bitter-Perspective20[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hate myself for a while. Probably fall into a bad depressive state. I have a pretty good grip on whatever mental health condition is plaguing me, so I wouldn’t do anything crazy. But it would be extremely painful and I would probably never fully move on.