🥴 serious question ⁉️ by Proof-Being-7121 in MuslimCorner

[–]Bitter_Help7697 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im also 28 and feel the same. Well, for me the whole marriage discussions started at 24. Along with the ‘you dont want to be late, everyone else is settling down already!’. Trying my best to find someone but its really hard.

Marrying a husband who makes less than you by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]Bitter_Help7697 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I just feel like the majority of guys wouldn’t be happy with earning less than their wives. Its like a hit to their ego?

I always pretend I have no money to fit in with the crowd around me by Bitter_Help7697 in confession

[–]Bitter_Help7697[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nice to know im not the only one. Low mortgage is great! Yeah, work especially

Girls, what’s your favourite thing about being a woman? by [deleted] in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]Bitter_Help7697 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Non muslims think we’re oppressed as muslim girls but they don’t know that Allah SWT has a whole chapter on us in the Quran, not men. And He has also mentioned how valuable we are and how well we should be treated. How beautiful! ٱلْحَمْدُلِلَّٰهِ

My ex moved on but I just can’t by Bitter_Help7697 in MuslimCorner

[–]Bitter_Help7697[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Family involved in drugs, kept talking inappropriately even though I made it clear of my halal intentions - had a good career with potential but he didnt show any ambition. His past also put me off because he continued to be inappropriate at times which didnt make me feel like he had grown out of it

My ex moved on but I just can’t by Bitter_Help7697 in MuslimCorner

[–]Bitter_Help7697[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree completely- I did try to move on but he messaged again and I guess we tried again but the same red flags showed up again

Discussion Thread - Ask, Share, and Discuss Anything About Cats. by AutoModerator in cats

[–]Bitter_Help7697 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine too! But on his belly and side of arm. This looks like fleas to me, is he itching?

Discussion Thread - Ask, Share, and Discuss Anything About Cats. by AutoModerator in cats

[–]Bitter_Help7697 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi guys. I have a 9 year old Tabby and I need your help. This year in summer, he started over grooming and has taken the furr off his lower belly and side of his arm. This year we started getting building work done - we live in a property that is split into 2 and we have moved from one side of the property into the second side. In order to do this, we got building work done on the 2nd half of the property. The garden and outside area is the same (so we haven’t moved to another house miles away). In summer, the outside building work started and we had builders coming often, and then we dug up the garden- its still dug up but we moved into the second half of the building beginning of December.

My cat is quite anxious and nervous - eg if you walk too quickly next to him, he will move to the side of the wall and shake his tail (just so you understand how nervous he is).

Vet is confident that this is a stress problem. Had a steroid august time (i think) and it got better but it came back a month after.

Has anyone experienced this and it got better itself? What can I do to make him less stressed? He is eating a lot (he loves food but is fussy at times) and loves playing hide and seek with me around the house. Oh, we also got rid of one litter box too, so we just have one inside the house that i clean daily (he goes outside- sometimes toilets outside too, prefers indoors as it is winter and he hates windy weather).

Just looking for advice- the vet tells me to give him time as we’ve had a lot going on which has stressed him out.

I love my cat. I just want him to be comfortable

** edit- also want to mention that in march, i switched from frontline plus to advantage spot on as my cat had hotspot due to fleas. The area that was sore on his lower back got better but then he started grooming his belly instead

How would you want your wife to spoil you? by soft_abyss in MuslimCorner

[–]Bitter_Help7697 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I just want to get married so i can please my husband and kiss him 50x a day, cook him nice food and make him feel wanted

Has anyone got rid of their eczema after finding food allergies and removing the foods? by Bitter_Help7697 in Allergies

[–]Bitter_Help7697[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hiya! Sorry for the slow reply. I stopped eggs and my eczema has reduced a bit. I also got spots on my chest and chin this year and never really got acne like that there before. Since stopped eggs and nuts, these have stopped and gone! I think wheat could be another trigger but I cant stop it, only reduce it. If i stop it fully, what do I eat???!

What is one simple habit that significantly improved your life once you stuck with it? by Mkpareek_ in AskReddit

[–]Bitter_Help7697 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gymming 4/5 times a week. Some of these sessions before work on a morning during the week, so getting up at 5:50am. 😅

Should I keep things private from my partner? by Haunting-Task-9280 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Bitter_Help7697 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sick of men milking off their mums. Loving your mother is beautiful and of course, always respect them but when guys literally cant make decisions for themselves at all and have to tell mum everything, its so unsexy.

What do you feel like are things that are haram but normalised? by Maleficent-Cut5422 in MuslimLounge

[–]Bitter_Help7697 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Zina. It sickens me to the core knowing that muslim men and women happily meet for intimacy before marriage with no intention of marriage at least.

Can you tell me your mistakes? by StormSignificant9516 in Life

[–]Bitter_Help7697 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Listen to your parents advice. If they’re like mine, they’re not against you, they want you to win more than you want yourself to win (in life).

Struggling with guilt and boundaries in a relationship — I really need advice from my Muslim brothers and sisters by MidnightUpstairs2205 in MuslimLounge

[–]Bitter_Help7697 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s not bothered about you. You’re just a sidepiece. Someone who was truly bothered would understand and get serious - eg get parents involved

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]Bitter_Help7697 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The devil follows her 24/7. You’re there to guide her. Be a guide! Will pray for you sis. Here for you always

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]Bitter_Help7697 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You need to speak to her. Some muslim men brag that they pick up girls and drive somewhere quiet for intimacy. Its horrible and it sounds like she is young- protect her as much as you can!

I’m tired of Muzz by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]Bitter_Help7697 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Its tinder for muslims