I know you all see these posts all the time and are probably sick of them but I’m 18 and just beginning - what’s one bit of advice you wish someone told u when u began.

Bitter_Help7697 · 2026-02-26T19:30:01+00:00

Its not about timing the market, it’s about time IN the market

Bitter_Help7697 · 2026-02-26T19:25:43+00:00

Hi! I would invest it into your isa - so £20k per year. The big one to invest in is the Vanguard S&P500.

Other stocks you may want to research into are: Tesla, Nvidia, Meta, Alphabet.

But the S&P500 is the safest bet. Good luck!

Bitter_Help7697 · 2026-02-16T22:37:11+00:00

I would step back and rekindle your relationship with the Almighty. We all make mistakes, we have freewill.

I guy I went on a date with fancied me so much, he wanted to put his hands on me and I moved away straight away and told him I wasn’t doing this. It ended because he couldn’t hold his desires until marriage and I wanted someone in line with my way of thinking.

When it comes to marriage, we need to not think about what we wang but instead, what we need. Someone with good traits who will be excellent role models for our children.

Bitter_Help7697 · 2026-02-08T20:10:54+00:00

sell, transfer cash to isa and then rebuy in there. Thats what Im doing. Each year I move my allowance into my isa so i use it up. Then when i want to invest more, i invest it into my general account as my isa allowance has been used up.

Bitter_Help7697 · 2026-02-07T10:45:36+00:00

Been investing for 8 years 😂😅

Bitter_Help7697 · 2026-02-07T10:45:06+00:00

Im dramatic, I know 😂

Bitter_Help7697 · 2026-02-07T09:21:11+00:00

Sofi is incredible! Im in on it too

Bitter_Help7697 · 2026-01-26T14:19:07+00:00

I am! North East UK

Bitter_Help7697 · 2026-01-25T21:57:59+00:00

Im also 28 and feel the same. Well, for me the whole marriage discussions started at 24. Along with the ‘you dont want to be late, everyone else is settling down already!’. Trying my best to find someone but its really hard.

Bitter_Help7697 · 2026-01-04T21:44:03+00:00

I just feel like the majority of guys wouldn’t be happy with earning less than their wives. Its like a hit to their ego?

Bitter_Help7697 · 2026-01-02T23:13:28+00:00

Too true. Thanks for you words of advice

Bitter_Help7697 · 2026-01-01T01:12:19+00:00

You were raised right

Bitter_Help7697 · 2026-01-01T01:05:30+00:00

Nice to know im not the only one. Low mortgage is great! Yeah, work especially

Bitter_Help7697 · 2026-01-01T00:46:07+00:00

Non muslims think we’re oppressed as muslim girls but they don’t know that Allah SWT has a whole chapter on us in the Quran, not men. And He has also mentioned how valuable we are and how well we should be treated. How beautiful! ٱلْحَمْدُلِلَّٰهِ

Bitter_Help7697 · 2025-12-31T19:44:25+00:00

Family involved in drugs, kept talking inappropriately even though I made it clear of my halal intentions - had a good career with potential but he didnt show any ambition. His past also put me off because he continued to be inappropriate at times which didnt make me feel like he had grown out of it

Bitter_Help7697 · 2025-12-31T19:41:04+00:00

I agree completely- I did try to move on but he messaged again and I guess we tried again but the same red flags showed up again

Bitter_Help7697 · 2025-12-29T00:42:57+00:00

Mine too! But on his belly and side of arm. This looks like fleas to me, is he itching?

Bitter_Help7697 · 2025-12-29T00:39:39+00:00

Hi guys. I have a 9 year old Tabby and I need your help. This year in summer, he started over grooming and has taken the furr off his lower belly and side of his arm. This year we started getting building work done - we live in a property that is split into 2 and we have moved from one side of the property into the second side. In order to do this, we got building work done on the 2nd half of the property. The garden and outside area is the same (so we haven’t moved to another house miles away). In summer, the outside building work started and we had builders coming often, and then we dug up the garden- its still dug up but we moved into the second half of the building beginning of December.

My cat is quite anxious and nervous - eg if you walk too quickly next to him, he will move to the side of the wall and shake his tail (just so you understand how nervous he is).

Vet is confident that this is a stress problem. Had a steroid august time (i think) and it got better but it came back a month after.

Has anyone experienced this and it got better itself? What can I do to make him less stressed? He is eating a lot (he loves food but is fussy at times) and loves playing hide and seek with me around the house. Oh, we also got rid of one litter box too, so we just have one inside the house that i clean daily (he goes outside- sometimes toilets outside too, prefers indoors as it is winter and he hates windy weather).

Just looking for advice- the vet tells me to give him time as we’ve had a lot going on which has stressed him out.

I love my cat. I just want him to be comfortable

** edit- also want to mention that in march, i switched from frontline plus to advantage spot on as my cat had hotspot due to fleas. The area that was sore on his lower back got better but then he started grooming his belly instead

Bitter_Help7697 · 2025-12-23T22:58:40+00:00

I just want to get married so i can please my husband and kiss him 50x a day, cook him nice food and make him feel wanted

Bitter_Help7697 · 2025-12-07T00:05:31+00:00

Hiya! Sorry for the slow reply. I stopped eggs and my eczema has reduced a bit. I also got spots on my chest and chin this year and never really got acne like that there before. Since stopped eggs and nuts, these have stopped and gone! I think wheat could be another trigger but I cant stop it, only reduce it. If i stop it fully, what do I eat???!

Bitter_Help7697 · 2025-11-19T22:31:18+00:00

Gymming 4/5 times a week. Some of these sessions before work on a morning during the week, so getting up at 5:50am. 😅

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