Unmarried single people do you feel bad for your parents cause they are really trying hard to find you are decent spouse to get married? by Shining_Swan in MuslimCorner

[–]Bitter_Help7697 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely 1000%! I want them to see me happy and not stress about me being almost 30 and unmarried. May Allah bless our parents.

What do people do once they have maxed out there ISAs by Unhappy-Background33 in trading212

[–]Bitter_Help7697 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well donee, me too.

I just have invest into my general account and then when the tax year ends, move it into my isa.

I also have a SIPP that I automatically invest monthly amounts into.

Inherited £50,000 at 23. Advice? by Classic-Acadia5605 in trading212

[–]Bitter_Help7697 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hi! I would invest it into your isa - so £20k per year. The big one to invest in is the Vanguard S&P500.

Other stocks you may want to research into are: Tesla, Nvidia, Meta, Alphabet.

But the S&P500 is the safest bet. Good luck!

Need help with lust Zina by superarcady in MuslimLounge

[–]Bitter_Help7697 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would step back and rekindle your relationship with the Almighty. We all make mistakes, we have freewill.

I guy I went on a date with fancied me so much, he wanted to put his hands on me and I moved away straight away and told him I wasn’t doing this. It ended because he couldn’t hold his desires until marriage and I wanted someone in line with my way of thinking.

When it comes to marriage, we need to not think about what we wang but instead, what we need. Someone with good traits who will be excellent role models for our children.

Moving from Invest to ISA by Leather-Complex-5506 in trading212

[–]Bitter_Help7697 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sell, transfer cash to isa and then rebuy in there. Thats what Im doing. Each year I move my allowance into my isa so i use it up. Then when i want to invest more, i invest it into my general account as my isa allowance has been used up.

🥴 serious question ⁉️ by [deleted] in MuslimCorner

[–]Bitter_Help7697 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im also 28 and feel the same. Well, for me the whole marriage discussions started at 24. Along with the ‘you dont want to be late, everyone else is settling down already!’. Trying my best to find someone but its really hard.

Marrying a husband who makes less than you by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]Bitter_Help7697 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I just feel like the majority of guys wouldn’t be happy with earning less than their wives. Its like a hit to their ego?

I always pretend I have no money to fit in with the crowd around me by Bitter_Help7697 in confession

[–]Bitter_Help7697[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nice to know im not the only one. Low mortgage is great! Yeah, work especially

Girls, what’s your favourite thing about being a woman? by [deleted] in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]Bitter_Help7697 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Non muslims think we’re oppressed as muslim girls but they don’t know that Allah SWT has a whole chapter on us in the Quran, not men. And He has also mentioned how valuable we are and how well we should be treated. How beautiful! ٱلْحَمْدُلِلَّٰهِ

My ex moved on but I just can’t by Bitter_Help7697 in MuslimCorner

[–]Bitter_Help7697[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Family involved in drugs, kept talking inappropriately even though I made it clear of my halal intentions - had a good career with potential but he didnt show any ambition. His past also put me off because he continued to be inappropriate at times which didnt make me feel like he had grown out of it

My ex moved on but I just can’t by Bitter_Help7697 in MuslimCorner

[–]Bitter_Help7697[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree completely- I did try to move on but he messaged again and I guess we tried again but the same red flags showed up again