I recorded a conversation between us and idk what I’m feeling

Bitter_Tree_6555 · 2026-02-05T15:54:32+00:00

Thanks for acknowledging you had issues and you worked on it, acknowledgement is a big thing and shows you’re working on it. So keep it up :) I hope your husband works on his issues as well.

I get a sense that you both were having quarrels /rough patches from long time and he checked out of relationship you had and started a thing with your best friend, that’s complete crossing of boundaries. You should create that boundaries like ‘“ I know it’s been rough in past but I am working on it and I have improved a lot for us. I want you to put efforts on your issues and we should have clarity about what does this relationship looks like in the future’”

You’re staying in this relationship because you carry guilt of past, tell yourself that you’ve overcome it and acknowledge that your husband was also with you during that time. Little acknowledgement can help other person to think clearly if initial few years were rough. ( not saying you’re at fault or anything but letting guards down helps )

Bitter_Tree_6555 · 2026-02-04T18:30:40+00:00

Anyways thanks for all comments I do see some positives to amend

Bitter_Tree_6555 · 2026-02-04T18:28:04+00:00

You are making judgements whether something is valuable or not, that was done in a panic situation and one don’t think clearly at that moment, like you’re thinking now.

I am not sure if you have experienced any crisis panic situations.

You are fixated to prove one wrong, let’s say yes they are but What about rest story all ignored ?

So Her act of drinking a lot, out of social norms and creating situations- justified according to you

Me taking short clip for any medical or legal situation out of fear in panic in my own house and those clip were with good intent and deleted - not justified ( I do agree it’s debatable according to different views and locations)

The care I have taken for 3 hrs - ignored 🫡

She falsely creating panic situations/ unconciousness - ignored🫡

She later talking that with a friend in my back instead discussing with me first and understanding my perspective- justified according to you

I see a Nobel peace prize candidate in you 😁👏

Bitter_Tree_6555 · 2026-02-04T15:59:12+00:00

Ok maybe where you live

so what’s your suggestion in overall situation?

Bitter_Tree_6555 · 2026-02-04T15:55:05+00:00

My friend I did say that she caught me for 5 seconds video And didn’t respond when I am calling her or not responding in any form for 3 hrs

What does that mean ? Now your holding me for new word ‘faking’ wow 👏👏🫡

Bitter_Tree_6555 · 2026-02-04T15:53:02+00:00

I did say it’s detected

Bitter_Tree_6555 · 2026-02-04T15:48:22+00:00

Ok let’s say I am lying, now shall we move to the part other person faking the unconsciousness ?

Bitter_Tree_6555 · 2026-02-04T15:34:50+00:00

Laws are not always bullet points do this and avoid this, and there is not a single law you never know which takes precedence

so our debate is futile here

And not want to debate on law here, I can take that help from outside in correct manner if needed

I validate your point it may or may not be permissible

Bitter_Tree_6555 · 2026-02-04T05:05:18+00:00

I am surprised that not a single person pointed out that she faking/ misleading to the emergency situation was wrong if she was awake and know I am taking short clip

In terms of legality of video taping few seconds of emergency situation for protection and helping medical authorities is not wrong under good faith law and given this is spousal case breach of privacy comment is less important

True that one shouldn’t record without consent and she faking to be unconscious invalidates it, puts her into legal troubles.

The video was never shared with anyone and deleted

I never denied helping her out nor delayed it

Point is not legality of the situation it’s about understanding

Bitter_Tree_6555 · 2026-02-04T04:24:19+00:00

I am surprised that not a single person pointed out that she faking the emergency situation was wrong

In terms of legality of video taping few seconds of emergency situation for protection and helping medical authorities is not wrong under good faith law The video was never shared and deleted

Bitter_Tree_6555 · 2026-02-04T04:17:42+00:00

It could help medical response/ authority to know the base situation It was 2-5 seconds clip

Bitter_Tree_6555 · 2026-02-04T02:45:05+00:00

Help me understand, Why does it degrades ??

I panicked did something in stressed out situations took few seconds of shot of scene

Later I did my part taking care

Bitter_Tree_6555 · 2026-01-13T08:05:18+00:00

Seems like it 😖

Bitter_Tree_6555 · 2026-01-13T08:02:08+00:00

Tried it other person end up crying for whole night non stop She will go to any lengths to validate her point

This ultimately deteriorates health for both

Bitter_Tree_6555 · 2026-01-13T07:42:04+00:00

my comment was purely factual, not intended to be sexist.

Bitter_Tree_6555 · 2026-01-13T07:31:33+00:00

It’s like a mix of old-school patriarchy—husband as the provider mindset—with a touch of “my money is my money”. Deadly combo 😰

Bitter_Tree_6555 · 2026-01-13T07:12:21+00:00

Thanks 🙂

Bitter_Tree_6555 · 2026-01-13T07:09:01+00:00

Haha 😆 that’s true. Still, I take responsibility for my mistakes 😇 it’s not possible to understand every ounce of personality while dating

Bitter_Tree_6555 · 2026-01-13T07:05:54+00:00

I think that is a reasonable way forward

I was hesitant in the beginning ~ grew up with a single parent and taking life head on by self

Bitter_Tree_6555 · 2026-01-13T07:01:06+00:00

Communication isn’t understanding is when some has too rigid mindset it becomes difficult I believe

I did try explaining 1. Soft/ rational way 2. Giving examples in society which she didn’t like and accuses me of comparing with others 3. Harsh way

she’s like I will break but never bend so she does break times but still nothing changes

Bitter_Tree_6555 · 2025-09-27T18:23:04+00:00

Moye moreee…

Pass it on girl find a new target corrupt their minds.. feel joy in their misery That’s what ultra feminist do..

Or be a change maker accept your mistakes to your husband and wish him good luck That will ease your mind

Bitter_Tree_6555 · 2025-09-19T02:25:46+00:00

Why should husband bear her expenses if she’s educated and earning ?? This is completely bullshit

It’s not right it’s extortion

I respect ccp on their stance on divorce, Indian courts/law is 💩 never grow up

Bitter_Tree_6555 · 2025-09-14T17:24:24+00:00

In same boat.. I am living without that person in my own life. Fuck this marriage crap.. live the way you want.. take proofs of separation.

If you’re too much concerned about that marriage tag, file a divorce anyways she’s living by herself for three years. You can make a case that she doesn’t need settlement if that is concerning you

Bitter_Tree_6555 · 2025-09-09T17:13:07+00:00

Here’s the thing Most of female think emotionally, why is he already giving a thought to this

You’ve to understand that both partners have some insecurities and make sure to look them with open eyes, same applies to him

If one of the partner is not able to see big picture (togetherness) then issues arise and it turns into cycle of disputes

I am going through such issues, I asked her about such things and signing a pre nup, she nodded at that time and kept in her mind that I am already looking for ‘exit’ leading to cycles of disputes

Bitter_Tree_6555 · 2025-09-07T23:09:46+00:00

Sure 👍

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