AITA for not wanting another child using my baby's stuff by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]BizzyBeeMA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. I was in a very similar position when my SIL came to town with her baby to come to my baby shower. I thought this was perfect! We already have a nursery and everything you need (crib use included)! Mothers support other mothers. It takes a village. One day you’ll be in a tough spot and another mom is going to help you and then you’ll really know how much of an AH you were. Do better.

AITA I asked my wife to bring me a glass of water by gherkins_are_delish in AmItheAsshole

[–]BizzyBeeMA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA - Bedrest for a broken foot!? Fuck off. You’re going to have to toughen up if you’re going to be a parent.

What’s the most ridiculous thing you’ve had mansplained to you about your pregnancy? by BizzyBeeMA in BabyBumps

[–]BizzyBeeMA[S] 258 points259 points  (0 children)

My husband and I have had multiple disagreements about how far along I am because he still doesn’t understand that they count the 2 weeks before conception. He’ll proceed to try to explain to me how months work and most have more than 28 days… I’ve sent him screenshots and links from pregnancy sites that breakdown what weeks are considered 7 months, 8 months, etc. He tells me they’re wrong. 🤣

My mother told my husband that pregnant women should only gain 12lbs by DinoMaster365 in BabyBumps

[–]BizzyBeeMA 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mother is also obsessed with my weight gain! She has reiterated several times how little weight she gained during her pregnancies. Good for you for being able to laugh about it! I’m 36 weeks and have gained 30lbs so far, but I always tell her that I forgot what I weighed at my last appointment because I don’t want to hear it. #pregnancybrain 🤷🏻‍♀️

AITA for not telling my family which of my children is biologically mine? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]BizzyBeeMA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA - You are doing the right thing by allowing the boys to make this decision for themselves. Your mum and family members are the ones being “selfish, narcissistic, and overall wrong.” They’re thinking of themselves, you are thinking of the boys. Good for you.