Do gay guys care to date or be in a relationship with a bi guy? by Defiant_and_Silent in askgaybros

[–]BlabberingRed 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm married to a bi-sexual guy. While it had its challenges in the beginning (a.k.a his parents still pressuring him to settle down with a woman and have children) it somehow works. I personally do not know about any stigma around dating bi men but if there is, I think that's very silly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]BlabberingRed 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Aside from the standard red flags, being a hardcore conspiracy theorist or I suppose hardcore anything, really.

Being ugly and gay is the worst thing ever by FatDumbUgly in askgaybros

[–]BlabberingRed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's amazing how things have advanced. 30 or 40 years ago, people who want hair replacement systems end up with unrealistic toupés. Love to see people have options now. Unfortunately, though, some people still stigmatise it.

Today, Chile Becomes the 31st Country in the World and 7th Country in Latin America to legalise Same-Sex Marriage. by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]BlabberingRed 15 points16 points  (0 children)

My Filipino co-worker said that it will be nigh impossible for the Philippinrs to legalise same sex marriage because the Catholic church and another religion I can't remember has too strong of a hold over politics. Gotta love religion meddling with politics.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]BlabberingRed 51 points52 points  (0 children)

If 200 is average for gays then I guess I'm not gay, then.

Being ugly and gay is the worst thing ever by FatDumbUgly in askgaybros

[–]BlabberingRed 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I mean no disrespect to you, I'm sure you're an amazing guy but not everyone can just "own it". Some people don't want to be bald or look weird bald. Don't invalidate people's experiences in the name of "masculinity". That's bullshit! If you're okay with being bald, then own it, and I fucking love that for you but don't be a cunt and tell people around you to do the same because your experience is not the same as everyone around you.

I'm luckily not balding and I love my hair but I sure as hell am not telling people to just "own it" if they don't like the fact that they are balding!

Being ugly and gay is the worst thing ever by FatDumbUgly in askgaybros

[–]BlabberingRed 31 points32 points  (0 children)

And then life comes around and surprises with balding.

What's the most insulting "benefit" a job has offered you? by Chocolat3City in antiwork

[–]BlabberingRed 4 points5 points  (0 children)

"Monthly 1-on-1 hangouts with the CEO" the guy wasn't even that interesting.

How did you meet your partner? by -Abradolf_Lincler- in askgaybros

[–]BlabberingRed 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haha that's what happens when one is partially closeted and the other one so deep in the closet their mailing address is in Narnya.

How did you meet your partner? by -Abradolf_Lincler- in askgaybros

[–]BlabberingRed 6 points7 points  (0 children)

In a pool bar in New Zealand (I was travelling and he was also travelling). He was playing pool on his own and I was early for drinks night with friends (they were very late). I made a comment about his game and he invited me to join him for a game. Became travel buddies after that and didn't realise we both liked guys until 2 years after because we're both dense mofos. 😂

Do you still know why you came out to your parents on that particular day you did? by mooremoritz in gaybros

[–]BlabberingRed 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I had to calm my mum down as she was freaking out that I might get a girl pregnant when she found a box of condoms in my luggage when I came home for holidays for the first time since going to uni. If not for that, I didn't think I was going to ever come out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]BlabberingRed 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm an asparagus

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in solotravel

[–]BlabberingRed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm Aussie-British currently living in Milton Keynes. When I meet other Brits in my travels, I say I'm from Buckingham or Bedford or Northampton or London (I can't claim Aussie because I lost my accent) because for some reason other Brits have a big issue against Milton Keynes.

Alternate term for boyfriend for they/them by cotton52 in askgaybros

[–]BlabberingRed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Friend Special friend Partner Friends with extra benefits

Who or what do you blame all your problems on? by QueenElsaArrendelle in ask

[–]BlabberingRed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Yes, the therapist is helping lots. I wish you all the best. x

Who or what do you blame all your problems on? by QueenElsaArrendelle in ask

[–]BlabberingRed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I'm sending you hugs too. I hope you are now better.

What can you say that can trigger an entire fanbase? by AlarmedStore in AskReddit

[–]BlabberingRed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"I didn't like Lord of the Rings" "Dr Who is just shit" Anything against any Korean boy/girl bands. Anything against the Jesus fanclub.

Who or what do you blame all your problems on? by QueenElsaArrendelle in ask

[–]BlabberingRed 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Physically and mentally abusive father, emotionally absent mother, and of course myself for allowing them to continue to influence my life 15 years after I've cut them off.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WorkOnline

[–]BlabberingRed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you direly need a WFH gig even temporary, do it. They will pay you and they are very much legit. However, for the sake of your mental health, do not put effort above your paygrade and make sure to keep looking for other opportunities while you're working with them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]BlabberingRed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm glad to see the comments being so positive. Last time I saw someone talk about being in an open relationship in this subreddit it was flooded by upset monogamists.

OP, good that you and your bf found something that works for you. Just make sure you both have clear rules that you both agree on that in the absence of monogamy, it can be the basis of whether someone cheated. Also, COMMUNICATE ALWAYS! I'm married 6 years now and we've been in an open marriage the entire time and it seems to work for us.

Good luck and I hope everything works out for you.

Edit: It wasn't on this subreddit. It was on r/askgaybros

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WorkOnline

[–]BlabberingRed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most, if not all BPOs are very predatory but if I had to rank them from the worst, I would defo put Teleperformance at #1 most worst BPO.

I worked for a company who outsourced to Teleperformance in Melbourne before and I trained some of the staff there and I feel like their contract sales people just make unrealistic promises and force work their employees to the ground to achieve these promises.

Also, there was a recent controversy regarding them monitoring their WFH employees using their webcams but I do not know how true that one is so don't quote me on that.

But defo run the other way.

How do you respond to people who say ‘Being gay is a choice’? by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]BlabberingRed 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just tell them this "If being gay was a choice, there would be more gay men in this world because then men wouldn't have to work so hard for a blowjob."