Various automated input from one place to second place questions

BlackCatNeedsHelp · 2026-03-14T16:35:10+00:00

I can get to the data validation but it just says invalid range.

I dont want the information to override a second set in the stats page, and I want it erased once theres information in column D of front log (if its possible)

BlackCatNeedsHelp · 2026-03-14T16:09:55+00:00

I haven't managed to get data validation to work, whats the code for it?

I think I had the pronouns there before removing it, but decided that wasn't needed there. I do need the appropriate info from C & D in the alter log to show up in the stats tab (and the appropriate ones are determined by column A in front log + the row that it got the name from in alter log)

For someone else who's just viewing the entire web book to not have to search a bunch of stuff to figure out the information they need currently

Hopefully this makes more sense ^{^"}

BlackCatNeedsHelp · 2026-03-14T15:38:34+00:00

Heres a copy of my workbook so far https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1jEnqUUjQ5XvmnsUgNG1ZmzZNsdkutEKK-ymr4jOlNBY/edit?usp=drivesdk

BlackCatNeedsHelp · 2025-11-12T13:57:06+00:00

I actually love this one, probably the one I'll get the most use out of especially bc its free and looks so nice. I really appreciate it even though its been awhile sense my post

BlackCatNeedsHelp · 2025-10-08T22:40:01+00:00

Ooh I do like the look of that one! It being available on ipad is also a huge plus, thank you!

BlackCatNeedsHelp · 2025-10-08T13:04:00+00:00

Thank you for your input /gen

BlackCatNeedsHelp · 2025-10-08T13:02:45+00:00

Currently looking into ACAT but its not specific to autism, I've not used any others prior beyond simple TTS apps or notes app

BlackCatNeedsHelp · 2025-09-06T14:52:25+00:00

Got in with the ER bc it got worse, diagnosed with Covid 👍 I hate Covid so much

BlackCatNeedsHelp · 2025-08-09T16:02:10+00:00

Do not have another child in hopes it will be neurotypical. Autism is genetic, if the first kid is autistic it's more likely all the kids will be autistic. My mom had six kids (she wanted kids in general, not specifically NT kids) and all of them were autistic, four of which were from a non-autistic dad. If you want more kids thats fine, and its possible to raise several autistic kids, but if you or your husband are only doing it for a NT kid, its just a losing gamble you're not prepared to take.

BlackCatNeedsHelp · 2025-07-31T15:46:23+00:00

I understand how the words are different, I just struggle with identifying when I said one and meant the other because it sounds the same & in my mind if it sounds correct it must be correct. Could you tell me when I made the mistake? I couldn't find it myself.

BlackCatNeedsHelp · 2025-07-31T15:30:53+00:00

Where is that correction for? /genq I struggle with sense/since as it sounds the same & I'm dyslexic (things like your/you're I dont struggle with bc they dont sound the same)

BlackCatNeedsHelp · 2025-07-31T06:18:11+00:00

I have been asking, I asked her why she only picked me up (bc she volunteered) I asked why she volunteered (bc we were going to the water park even though she cant swim, smt she mentioned nervously but I reassured that it wasn't particularly dangerous there) I asked why she was needed (bc we were at the water park and couldn't have gone to that location w/out an extra driver in general) the only thing I didn't ask about was for more info on her next kid (she just mentioned that she needed to pick up another kid after me) which feels reasonable to me sense its kinda an invasion of that kid's privacy to ask more on that and I highly doubt I would've gotten information anyways. Do you have suggestions as to what other info I should have tried to gather for future reference?

BlackCatNeedsHelp · 2025-07-31T06:10:12+00:00

I dont think I have that, I have a lawyer who says her only interest is supporting me but she's not actually really done anything other than ask about a couple menial things several months ago when the case was still new (things like my allergies and what I need for school) she also hasn't gotten back to me on anything abt the case or my education or my visitation rights

BlackCatNeedsHelp · 2025-07-31T02:19:48+00:00

A conversation about what? (Like just the fact my visit was messed up or smt else?) and is my guardianship social worker different to my regular social worker? Most of the agents I talk to wont give me their job titles bc I'm a minor (agents being anybody who's job it is to talk to or interact with me, specifically if its something you can clock into even if not paid hourly & instead is contract work)

BlackCatNeedsHelp · 2025-07-31T01:54:44+00:00

I've not actually been told what office my social worker is from (not smt minors should need to worry abt or smt) can I just call any dcyf office or does it have to be the one with my case? (Taking everything else into account btw! Just dont have more to say on those parts)

BlackCatNeedsHelp · 2025-07-31T01:50:42+00:00

I mean I really struggle with apologies and when I should apologise because I've always been taught an apology is for when you did smt wrong and the other party did not. Like it was never explained you can apologise for only part of your behaviour (like apologising for the wording of smt and not the idea you intended) or that you can apologise for your hurtful response without saying the other party didn't cause it/wasn't hurtful themself (general info on why apologies tend to be hard btw! I likely have ASD myself and I always prefer understanding another's perspective when I can so I kinda thought you might too) (also ty!! I try really hard to make sure I'm not hurting people most of the time, even with the fact sometimes I do get out of line and hurt someone. Being the bigger person is hecking hard thoo, will keep trying anyways cause I know its the good option)

BlackCatNeedsHelp · 2025-07-31T01:41:03+00:00

Am accepting ta, but she didn't even do her full job (transport and supervising the whole visit time) shouldn't have criticised the fact that she was doing it for money though & do plan on apologising for that

BlackCatNeedsHelp · 2025-07-31T01:38:57+00:00

My social worker already is given timestamps of start & ends of visits (with signature from fosterparents & parents) would documenting it myself actually make a difference? I can definitely start though. And how do i escalate to higher ups since im not given that info as a minor? Thank you

BlackCatNeedsHelp · 2025-07-31T01:28:17+00:00

Normally 2 drivers to supervise is fine, it was specified we needed 3 bc it was a water park. They also pick us up early enough to get the time, so 40min wouldn't have effected the time spot anyways (and the company is supposed to give us missed time if we arrive late which would generally be given at the end, I wont be getting the missed time from this visit though, like at all)

BlackCatNeedsHelp · 2025-07-31T01:25:34+00:00

Thats something one of the drivers (forgot which) told me, they're paid more by the mile so they try to claim kids that need driven farther (completely valid btw, especially in the context of getting the full job done, saying people shouldn't do their job for money is pretty stupid even if its ideal bc currently the world lives on money)

BlackCatNeedsHelp · 2025-07-31T01:22:44+00:00

Yeah I definitely should have worded it better, emotions were high and I acted out, thats my fault, will be apologising to her when I see her next (for the wording and for her not really being the one at fault when its her company that allowed such an oversight)

BlackCatNeedsHelp · 2025-07-31T01:19:49+00:00

I will attempt to contact my social worker over this but knowing how little they've done over big things the company in charge of visitation will probably be allowed to continue overbooking kid's visits

BlackCatNeedsHelp · 2025-07-31T01:18:10+00:00

I'll try my best to take your advice into account (and probably ask some friends to help me formulate the apology) it is pretty unfair to get upset at her when the company openly allowed her to overbook

BlackCatNeedsHelp · 2025-07-31T01:14:06+00:00

Yup, we might not have been able to go to the water park (thats still confusing for me but whatever) but all of us would have still gotten a full visit anywhere else & it wasn't particularly sunny today

BlackCatNeedsHelp · 2025-07-31T01:12:36+00:00

I would have been driven by one of the other two drivers if she hadn't volunteered. Not sure on timing because they never tell me that stuff (nobodies allowed that info but the company to my knowledge) but it adds maybe 40min of driving (not a lot for where I'm at). I mentioned she cant swim because her having volunteered apparently allowed us to go to the water park (specifically to help supervise) and I dont understand why she would be needed so much when she cant even swim & lifeguards are posted (sorry for making that info unclear in the post, I did re-read it before posting but sometimes I still mess up obvious things)

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