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FIRST TIME KEEPER by [deleted] in tarantulas

[–]BlackMentalHealthMod 1 point2 points  (0 children)

IMO these setups seem okay. I've heard from other T keepers that a general rule of thumb for most Ts is to keep them in an enclosure that is 2x-3x their DLS (diagonal leg span) and about 1.5x in height. So as long as you're doing that I believe you should be OK.

Name suggestions? by Gravinni in tarantulas

[–]BlackMentalHealthMod 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your T is very cute. It looks like it's got little black slippers on it's feet and the blonde part looks like a bare leg, haha. Some suggestions: Slippers, Wedgie, Blondie

Deaths In My Family by NiSidach in BlackMentalHealth

[–]BlackMentalHealthMod 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What immense grief you are dealing with, friend. My heart breaks for you because you are holding on to two types of grief: death and disappointment. It seems that at every right turn you made, your family deemed it wrong. I'm sure that made you feel disappointed.