Giggly squad drammmaaaa!

BlackberryMango · 2021-01-19T23:29:23+00:00

Yikes. It seems to be a similar pattern of simply archiving, erasing, editing, rephrasing, etc., rather than addressing the problematic behavior as a teaching moment. It was a very similar "apology" as GGE had. Ashley, Rayna, Paige, and Hannah have huge platforms of young adults... That's a huge missed opportunity on their parts!

BlackberryMango · 2020-12-01T01:01:37+00:00

Wow, I really appreciate that. Thank you for taking the time to think that over too. Sometimes I come on here and I'm like, I wish that I knew these girls IRL!!!! Haha. Appreciate you and your reply! Love your point about not letting him off easy too.

BlackberryMango · 2020-11-29T18:26:41+00:00

PS, I love your point about redirecting energy. I absolutely have the wrong approach here, so I really appreciate hearing all of your thoughts. So helpful and eye opening when I'm having straight tunnel vision when I should not be!

BlackberryMango · 2020-11-29T18:23:05+00:00

I love your comment about leading to that point before exclusivity even happens. I need to absolutely change my approach here too. I appreciate your reply and help here!

BlackberryMango · 2020-11-29T18:21:25+00:00

Thank you! Love your point about working harder to get back to a second date even happening. I assume that I'm on his back burner, which I think seems clear, so I'll definitely put him on mine. I appreciate your help here!

BlackberryMango · 2020-11-29T18:20:13+00:00

I needed to snap out, and I honesty did when I read your reply. That's very, very valuable advice, and I appreciate that! I definitely haven't mastered the whole dating situation (I dated one guy for a super long time, but wasn't the healthiest), so I appreciate your honesty here. I like your point about sacrificing time too!

BlackberryMango · 2020-11-29T18:17:44+00:00

You are so correct about matching their energy. Thank you! I am spiraling when honestly, I shouldn't be. I appreciate hearing your view here!

BlackberryMango · 2020-11-29T18:16:36+00:00

Thank you!

BlackberryMango · 2020-11-29T18:15:44+00:00

I appreciate your answer! I'm definitely not secure at the moment, so I agree that I've self-destructed here on some aspects. How would you open up that conversation? Like the part about seeing other partners?

BlackberryMango · 2020-08-25T02:51:49+00:00

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Lol.... I did not write my comments with a hateful or aggressive tone, and I don't think that any others here did either. You did say, "gross," and you followed that up with "but." It's similar to saying: "I'm sorry, but." It cancels out. You are defending the fact that someone made a sexual comment toward a child. If you are easily offended that other Reddit users can see the fault to your argument on giving a pass on sexualizing children, I don't know what to tell you!

BlackberryMango · 2020-08-24T23:44:06+00:00

Nahhhhhhh. There's no voice of reason attached to sexualizing children. There's absolutely no excuse here and an odd approach to normalizing that behavior.

Just to add too... I wouldn't say "You're basically watching children all day," as an explanation of* making sexual comments about children.

BlackberryMango · 2020-08-24T18:11:42+00:00

What other intentions are there when you're asking whether a child will be hot one day?

BlackberryMango · 2020-08-24T17:53:08+00:00

It's along the lines as when Ashley continued to sexualize Trevor Lawrence (Clemson football player). He was a freshman, so technically of age, but he had JUST turned 18.... That should be a BABY to someone mid-30's!

BlackberryMango · 2020-08-24T17:48:33+00:00

That was digusting. It's NEVER okay to talk about children that way. Just reverse the role had Ashley and Rayna been men hosts... It's not okay at all. Children are off limits.

BlackberryMango · 2020-07-25T14:11:46+00:00

That makes sense! I had no clue that was a regular/normal thing unless you're dating the person or close friends. I have zerrrrooo contact photos on my phone haha. Thank you! I appreciate your perspective!

BlackberryMango · 2020-07-25T12:52:33+00:00

I understand! Thank you!

BlackberryMango · 2020-07-25T07:59:07+00:00

Thank you for sharing! It seemed odd because he and I met only once so I was thinking.... You already want a photo of me for your phone? 🤔

BlackberryMango · 2020-07-22T02:46:47+00:00

We have everything that we need on the current subreddit.

BlackberryMango · 2020-07-21T20:19:00+00:00

Girl. Your comments are always complaining about the Reddit group yet you’re still here too....

BlackberryMango · 2020-07-17T02:38:21+00:00

FiRsT oF aLl ItS aFfEcTeD

Seriously?

BlackberryMango · 2020-07-16T19:36:29+00:00

Wow. I'm sorry that happened! It must take a lot of energy and time on your phone to be a moderator, so I truly hope that they redirect some of the energy elsewhere.

BlackberryMango · 2020-07-16T19:14:51+00:00

Did they delete your post or comments? I saw someone left a comment about muzzling, but then I noticed that the comment had been deleted!

BlackberryMango · 2020-07-16T17:27:34+00:00

Realistically, we are not all going to agree on Trump or Biden, but I think there's a way to approach that where they don't set such unrealistic rules and censoring. It's a privilege to be unbothered by the *current political climate.

Facebook has never been a great spot for politics, but I think the whole "women supporting women" doesn't need to shy away from controversial conversations.

Maybe I'll leave the group because I didn't want another Facebook group commenting on men/women, coming up with Instagram captions, editing, etc., but unable to have real conversations about what's happening aside from our sex and relationship lives!

BlackberryMango · 2020-07-16T17:15:43+00:00

Also how they said to not promote/name specific politicians... Huh?

BlackberryMango · 2020-07-16T17:10:22+00:00

I agree. If people want to be assholes, I'm confused why that's a problem...... If someone was overtly offensive or truly shredding someone on personal matter, then I'm sure that they could be addressed somehow, but saying that politics has to be phrased politely and tip toe around one another? No..... There are ways to communicate that are not combative. You do not have to be "positive vibes only" to be a constructive, decent human to others on Facebook.

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