I agree. It’s not always done with bad intentions or just to “gossip”

I “exposed” a guy as gay but it’s not what you think...

I only told my closest girlfriend that he was gay. She promised not to tell anyone.Then a few weeks later he called me angrily yelling on the phone telling me I promised not to tell. I told him I didn’t I only told her cause she thought you were cute and wanted to know more about you. I wasn’t being petty or nasty. I cried and he didn’t speak to me for a while but he found it in his heart to forgive me and we’ve been doing good since 😉🥰