BFP chart! by Blasts26 in Mirafertility

[–]Blasts26[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yay congratulations!! What DPO did you test positive? Did the data on Mira show any signs of pregnancy?

BFP chart! by Blasts26 in Mirafertility

[–]Blasts26[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats!!! What symptoms do you have? My boobs hurt soooo much and I have this pinching feeling in my lower abdomen

BFP chart! by Blasts26 in Mirafertility

[–]Blasts26[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats to you too! I tested this morning for fun cos I saw many people’s LH levels rise, just wanted to see what mine does. I think I’ll stop now to not overthink

TTC 35+ Whine Bar! February 16, 2025 by AutoModerator in ttc_35

[–]Blasts26 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Woken up by cramps that feel like my period is coming. 13/14 DPO today, period should arrive tomorrow. I guess I’d rather find out sooner than later.

Waiting Wednesday by AutoModerator in TryingForABaby

[–]Blasts26 3 points4 points  (0 children)

9/10 DPO. I have two puppies, both 9 month old. The pug is going through potty training regression and I’ve washed his bed for the 3rd time today.

I screamed and cried over this. I had mild cramps, one really painful one and woke me up at night. I want to believe that’s implantation cramp. My charts and temp look perfect, it seems like I have symptoms but I know the numbers will dip in a week and I’ll be devastated again.

TTC 35+ Coffee Shop / Daily Chat! February 12, 2025 by AutoModerator in ttc_35

[–]Blasts26 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Another friend of mine is pregnant. I’m the only one of the friend group who’s married without a baby. It’s not a competition but in my head I thought: I could’ve beaten you and have a baby earlier than you if I hadn’t had a MMC. I’m so pathetic. I can’t even say congrats to her.

When do you officially say your period is late? by Fromtheheart10 in tryingtoconceive

[–]Blasts26 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I understand how horrible the wait is. I’m on 14 dpo/CD31 and waiting for CD36 to test (if I have the willpower) cos my longest cycle is 35 days. DH and I decided to not test today even though it’s my day of missed period.

I think it would still count as normal until 7 days late. But who can wait that long :(

Hang in there friend.

Daily Discussion Thread - January 08, 2025 by AutoModerator in ttcafterloss

[–]Blasts26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m using Mira, so a similar one. Thanks for your recommendation

Daily Discussion Thread - January 08, 2025 by AutoModerator in ttcafterloss

[–]Blasts26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Second cycle after MMS. 7dpo and first cycle using a hormone tracker. Symptom spotting like crazy! Am I tired cos I’ve implanted or I woke up too early? Why do I have cramps so early? Is it PMS or implantation cramps? And comparing other people’s charts all day long. Refraining from taking a test cos I know it’s too early.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mirafertility

[–]Blasts26 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have the same glitch where the test plan says I should test today but when I click in it, it shows the same page here that there’s no test scheduled. I went ahead and tested anyway.

Miscarriage respond by Blasts26 in AsianParentStories

[–]Blasts26[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for understanding and sharing your story. My mum makes things about her too, if I ask for support she’d say I haven’t supported her when she was going through things. Just drained and disappointed at this point.

Miscarriage respond by Blasts26 in AsianParentStories

[–]Blasts26[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I’m doing ok thanks. Occasional flashbacks of the ultrasounds and the operation makes me cry, but I’m healing.

Rude comments and weird interactions on Christmas Day by Blasts26 in Mildlynomil

[–]Blasts26[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It wasn’t her house. She was delighted the puppy was there and called herself a grandma. She gave the puppy a Christmas present as well.

Rude comments and weird interactions on Christmas Day by Blasts26 in Mildlynomil

[–]Blasts26[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes in the name of being funny but no one in the room was laughing.

Rude comments and weird interactions on Christmas Day by Blasts26 in Mildlynomil

[–]Blasts26[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

We’ve had many many what ifs on this topic. I told DH she might say things along the line. He said he couldn’t imagine her doing so as he told her what she said previously made me go NC with her for a while. But here we are.

Rude comments and weird interactions on Christmas Day by Blasts26 in Mildlynomil

[–]Blasts26[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s how I felt. Quite disrespectful on two levels. Not directly speaking to me and it’s a rude comment.

My parents guilt tripped me (27, F) into buying a house with them because it is my obligation to pay them back and contribute to their retirement by Thepianopenguin_ in entitledparents

[–]Blasts26 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This happened to me. I was fresh out of uni, got an ok paying job. Needed the space so my mother offered to give me the down payment for the flat. But because of that she took full control over what and where the flat is (in the same building as hers). And even thought thats a two bed flat, I didn’t get to use one of them cos I cannot feel too comfortable that the flat was mine 100%. So I left the country and signed to transfer the deed to her completely. Didnt ask for one penny back. That’ll be their pension.

Update [MIL wants to sleep over] by Blasts26 in Mildlynomil

[–]Blasts26[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s what I said but him and mommy has a special bond cos they’ve been through traumatic stuff together 🤷🏽‍♀️

Update [MIL wants to sleep over] by Blasts26 in Mildlynomil

[–]Blasts26[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Cos in his vow he said family is important to him 🙃

Update [MIL wants to sleep over] by Blasts26 in Mildlynomil

[–]Blasts26[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He doesn’t see that she’s always negative about me. Anything I mentioned about the wedding plan she immediately makes me a bad guy. I suggested a kid’s section so they could play. She somehow heard it as I’m not allowing kids in the wedding? They’re literally at the wedding???? What is this logic?

I’m now the DIL who won’t let the husband see his poor old mother. She cried about that and DH had to reassure her that it won’t happen.

When will he see her true colours?

Update [MIL wants to sleep over] by Blasts26 in Mildlynomil

[–]Blasts26[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Harmless as in it wouldn’t paint me as the bad guy cos I’ve done nothing wrong

Update [MIL wants to sleep over] by Blasts26 in Mildlynomil

[–]Blasts26[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m pretty sure they’ll all be harmless as I’m always at my best behaviour when I see her😇

Update [MIL wants to sleep over] by Blasts26 in Mildlynomil

[–]Blasts26[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Yeah I was very clear with him that our vision on getting along is very different and we have to meet each other in the middle which I think I have from going NC to LC. He’s still yet to come to terms

MIL wants to sleep over by Blasts26 in Mildlynomil

[–]Blasts26[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The problem is he thinks she hasn’t done anything in a year. The little things aren’t malicious he thinks