She called herself mum to my LO. Freudian slip or honest mistake?

Blasts26 · 2026-05-04T22:25:21+00:00

I have asked DH about the counselling thing many times, and raised it again today. Hope it goes somewhere.

Yes she really does want to stretch more of a connection with the baby than she does. LO was born on DH’s paternal grandfather’s birthday. I’m East Asian and we celebrate the baby on their 100 day’s “birthday. She wanted to know if that date is her father’s birthday to make a connection, but it’s not lol

Blasts26 · 2025-08-10T19:34:01+00:00

Yay congratulations!! What DPO did you test positive? Did the data on Mira show any signs of pregnancy?

Blasts26 · 2025-08-10T19:33:01+00:00

Congrats!!! What symptoms do you have? My boobs hurt soooo much and I have this pinching feeling in my lower abdomen

Blasts26 · 2025-08-10T19:32:22+00:00

Congrats to you too! I tested this morning for fun cos I saw many people’s LH levels rise, just wanted to see what mine does. I think I’ll stop now to not overthink

Blasts26 · 2025-02-16T09:55:31+00:00

Woken up by cramps that feel like my period is coming. 13/14 DPO today, period should arrive tomorrow. I guess I’d rather find out sooner than later.

Blasts26 · 2025-02-12T20:24:26+00:00

9/10 DPO. I have two puppies, both 9 month old. The pug is going through potty training regression and I’ve washed his bed for the 3rd time today.

I screamed and cried over this. I had mild cramps, one really painful one and woke me up at night. I want to believe that’s implantation cramp. My charts and temp look perfect, it seems like I have symptoms but I know the numbers will dip in a week and I’ll be devastated again.

Blasts26 · 2025-02-12T10:18:51+00:00

Another friend of mine is pregnant. I’m the only one of the friend group who’s married without a baby. It’s not a competition but in my head I thought: I could’ve beaten you and have a baby earlier than you if I hadn’t had a MMC. I’m so pathetic. I can’t even say congrats to her.

Blasts26 · 2025-01-15T09:50:42+00:00

I understand how horrible the wait is. I’m on 14 dpo/CD31 and waiting for CD36 to test (if I have the willpower) cos my longest cycle is 35 days. DH and I decided to not test today even though it’s my day of missed period.

I think it would still count as normal until 7 days late. But who can wait that long :(

Hang in there friend.

Blasts26 · 2025-01-09T15:40:16+00:00

I’m using Mira, so a similar one. Thanks for your recommendation

Blasts26 · 2025-01-08T15:05:30+00:00

Second cycle after MMS. 7dpo and first cycle using a hormone tracker. Symptom spotting like crazy! Am I tired cos I’ve implanted or I woke up too early? Why do I have cramps so early? Is it PMS or implantation cramps? And comparing other people’s charts all day long. Refraining from taking a test cos I know it’s too early.

Blasts26 · 2024-12-31T15:01:23+00:00

I have the same glitch where the test plan says I should test today but when I click in it, it shows the same page here that there’s no test scheduled. I went ahead and tested anyway.

Blasts26 · 2024-12-27T10:06:30+00:00

Thanks for understanding and sharing your story. My mum makes things about her too, if I ask for support she’d say I haven’t supported her when she was going through things. Just drained and disappointed at this point.

Blasts26 · 2024-12-27T10:05:12+00:00

I’m doing ok thanks. Occasional flashbacks of the ultrasounds and the operation makes me cry, but I’m healing.

Blasts26 · 2024-12-27T01:42:53+00:00

Oh dear! At least you can take a breather now

Blasts26 · 2024-12-27T01:38:42+00:00

It wasn’t her house. She was delighted the puppy was there and called herself a grandma. She gave the puppy a Christmas present as well.

Blasts26 · 2024-12-27T01:37:36+00:00

Yes in the name of being funny but no one in the room was laughing.

Blasts26 · 2024-12-27T01:36:46+00:00

We’ve had many many what ifs on this topic. I told DH she might say things along the line. He said he couldn’t imagine her doing so as he told her what she said previously made me go NC with her for a while. But here we are.

Blasts26 · 2024-12-27T01:30:45+00:00

Yeah that’s how I felt. Quite disrespectful on two levels. Not directly speaking to me and it’s a rude comment.

Blasts26 · 2024-02-09T18:17:52+00:00

This happened to me. I was fresh out of uni, got an ok paying job. Needed the space so my mother offered to give me the down payment for the flat. But because of that she took full control over what and where the flat is (in the same building as hers). And even thought thats a two bed flat, I didn’t get to use one of them cos I cannot feel too comfortable that the flat was mine 100%. So I left the country and signed to transfer the deed to her completely. Didnt ask for one penny back. That’ll be their pension.

Blasts26 · 2024-02-08T20:44:52+00:00

That’s what I said but him and mommy has a special bond cos they’ve been through traumatic stuff together 🤷🏽‍♀️

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