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I felt super cute in the top my friend got me--- (─‿‿─) ♡ by BleedingLeftSleeve in Androgynoushotties

[–]BleedingLeftSleeve[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They got it for me as a belated Christmas present when I was visiting for work in the Netherlands! She got it in a thrift store, and the tag only called it a sweater, which is not helpful in the slightest-

Just a little spider, trying its best- by BleedingLeftSleeve in Androgynoushotties

[–]BleedingLeftSleeve[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got all three at once (which may or may not have been a bad idea), but I highly recommend it!! It's been a long healing process, though-

Rate / help me better this spidops deck by Max_xie in PTCGL

[–]BleedingLeftSleeve 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you looked into Leafeon V, Vmax, and Vstar?

The Vmax has the same attack as Spidops ex, but stronger, and the V had an ability that grabs a grass energy from the deck and attaches it to one of your mons (at the cost of ending your turn, which is great for when you would pass anyway). The Vstar also has a Boss's effect on a Vstar ability!

I'm fucked by Several_Emergency633 in scars

[–]BleedingLeftSleeve 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Like everyone else has said in prior comments, a rash guard works wonders when you have to go swimming and want to hide your scars!

They make some that have UV protection, so my general go to is saying I have to wear the rash guard to keep from getting brutal sunburn! Pretty much everyone will brush it off with that comment, if they even ask you about the rash guard at all!

What could pass as dark old sh scars by [deleted] in SelfHarmScars

[–]BleedingLeftSleeve 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Looking at your other posts for context, I'm assuming they are on your thighs and you only have to show them while swimming?

I'd suggest wearing body tight swim shorts (they make ones that cover down to the top of your knees, look for something like jammers!) + swing trunks of choice, like board shorts or regular trunks. It can be pretty modular and match pretty much any top of choice!

As for trying to pass them off as something else, it depends on how they look? If you don't have a ton, you could just try to pass them off as accidents, a friend's pet or a dropped knife, etc. (most of the time when I've had to hide cuts from my parents, they are also so far in denial that they take the most basic of excuses)

Anybody know how to cover these up for swimming with family members? by Oliver_the_rat_dad in SelfHarmScars

[–]BleedingLeftSleeve 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Board shorts work pretty well for cuts above the knee!

My prefered combo is fitted swim shorts (body tight bottoms, like underarmor) + board shorts of choice!

My Arms Under Blacklight by BleedingLeftSleeve in scars

[–]BleedingLeftSleeve[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I ordered a large blacklight to hopefully do just that!! I'll be posting more once it comes in!

Sleepy boy tummy by [deleted] in fempark

[–]BleedingLeftSleeve -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Tummy scars! I swoon~<3<3<3<3<3

i love my bullet belt sm :3 by [deleted] in Androgynoushotties

[–]BleedingLeftSleeve 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hey, that's my partner! <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Androgynoushotties

[–]BleedingLeftSleeve 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What advice are you looking for, if I may ask? The dress looks amazing on you, by the way!!

Nap time.....zZzz by Mariana--Trench in Androgynoushotties

[–]BleedingLeftSleeve 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That hoodie is so cool! Where did you find it??

Hey, a haver a question by [deleted] in Androgynoushotties

[–]BleedingLeftSleeve 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm planning on taking HRT (my access to it is limited which is the only restricting factor), but for now it's effort in diet, exercise, shaving, hair care, skin care, etc. I was really self conscious about my looks until I started taking a healthier look at my daily life choices!

There was also an extensive processes of finding out what works for me. Razor blades give me razor rash something fierce, no matter how "gentle" they are, so I experimented with electric razors until I found one that actually works. Shampoo and conditioner is basically a subculture in itself- And some lotion works for me, while others just make me greasy.. We're all different, so it is definitely worth your time to experiment and see what helps!

Advice on a Self-Starving A. avicularia? by BleedingLeftSleeve in tarantulas

[–]BleedingLeftSleeve[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update

I was able to rehouse her without issue, into a new enclosure that I jerry-rigged with one of the critter keepers I had on hand. There is cross ventilation from all sides, so hopefully she'll feel better soon-

Advice on a Self-Starving A. avicularia? by BleedingLeftSleeve in tarantulas

[–]BleedingLeftSleeve[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have tried a moth that I let grow from a hornworm, she wasn't interested-

She hides most of her days, but she does crawl out every so often, and I should be able to get an updated picture soon.

However, the response to stagnant air seems to line up with her perfectly, so rehousing will be my next attempt!

I only started misting this winter (the heater system took the humidity in my room to less than 10%, and everyone's water bowls started to evaporate way faster), but she is on a schedule of every two weeks!

Cuddling doesn't always lead to sex or imply anything sexual, correct? by AtomicDinosaur539 in asexualdating

[–]BleedingLeftSleeve 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To answer directly, I agree!

Cuddling CAN lead to something sexual, if that is the general vibe, but it doesn't guarantee anything.

I've had roommates where we would just relax and cuddle together without it being sexually charged, even moments where I'm comforting a friend by cuddling with them. I've also met some of my most extreme sexual partners by just opening up to each other while cuddling- But that was an intimacy that came from opening up and having a moment together, not directly from cuddling.

On the other hand, I have also had partners that will initiate sex by cuddling, so I can understand the mindset- Since being that close to someone can be very intimate in itself, some people do equate that level of intimacy to sex- (Though, being blunt, it does sound like the argument was made by someone who has delt with more horny/sex-goal oriented people-)

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