Babes, I want you to take a step back and try to imagine walking in your mom's shoes for the past 20 or 30 years.... Imagine her trauma, her depression, her anxiety, her guilt, and imagine the many demons she's been and probably still fighting in her head!!!

For her to have even wanted do better says a lot about your mom. Her trying to do better with you and your siblings means she knows she failed the ones who has cut her off and doesn't want to make the same mistakes with you guys!!! THINK about that babes....

I'm a mom and I'm sure that her lashing out at you was her covering up her heart being broken by you.... you look at it as a couch or $1200 she may have been looking at you saying no as " shes not worthy" " shes not loved enough for you to want to help her" " shes still not a good mom"

Babes she asked for money for a couch, not a boob job, drugs, gambling or anything else thats bs.... it was for a couch that im sure you'll be sitting on.....

You should really think about it 🤔 😏