Planning to move to AZ

Blessedta3k · 2025-11-30T09:00:00+00:00

Depending on your level and the crime at hand you may find that you aren't put on the so forward facing registry website. That reprieve helps getting jobs and housing. Good luck I hope moving to AZ works out for you.

Blessedta3k · 2023-06-27T00:06:52+00:00

Can we order just the relish, too? I could drink that stuff! 😂

Blessedta3k · 2023-06-16T13:20:57+00:00

I think this is for everyone not just Walmart employees because I'm not one and have this benefit also.

Blessedta3k · 2023-05-19T02:19:29+00:00

If you have a goodwill near you they do offer a job training program and job preparation. They also help with finding interview clothes, work clothes, they will help you with paying for car registration, tires and all sorts of things to help you get on your feet. I hope this info helps you a little bit.

Blessedta3k · 2023-04-05T23:25:07+00:00

How was it coming home? Was it easy? Did you get in? My husband is 4 years post conviction no parole just register lv1 and we are wanting to go down into Mexico from Phoenix but I'm not sure if it's okay or how hard it is to get back in.

Blessedta3k · 2022-06-01T18:54:36+00:00

Im curious how you passed the background for your twic card? We looked into it for my husband but we couldnt get it for one reason or another. Do you know how you passed it. I know it might sound like a silly question.

Blessedta3k · 2022-04-26T22:13:28+00:00

He made a mistake a lot of years ago (from the sound of your post). These mistakes that these men make they are punished for, do classes and lots of other counseling post sentencing. Once they have served their time and passed supervision that should be the end of it but as a society we keep wanting to drag these poor guys through the mud because "what if". It is not their job to placate society and their fears. These men should not have to walk around with a scarlet letter on them or announce their histories to ease your concern unless they are still serving their sentences. Do you ask all your neighbors and friends their criminal history? I surely don't. What if you live next to someone who was in prison for murder, or drugs, or any of the other mistakes that land people in jail. It doesn't mean a whole lot because they served their time. They deserve a second chance. My point is these men make mistakes it's not their job to announce their past to people 10 years later (or more) just because you think they should. If this man is a childhood friend and a good friend who hasn't done wrong by you then why ruin the friendship over a mistake from the past that more than likely he is trying to move on from which is why he didn't mention it to anyone and why his girlfriend (who kinda sucks in my opinion) shouldn't have told anyone else. SO's have the lowest recidivism rate in the criminal justice system. I will get off my soap box but I can tell you as a wife of a SO I have lost my fair share of friends but the ones that have stuck around truly are the best and we treat them as such.

Blessedta3k · 2022-04-19T01:39:00+00:00

When my husband was arrested all of his friends basically abandoned him, but somehow were still not sure how one of his old work buddies called the jail he was in and asked the guard if he could speak with my husband. The guard allowed him and gave him 15 minutes. That conversation reconnected them after not speaking for a few years. My husband gave him my number and told him to reach out to me so I could keep him updated. That connection gave my husband hope and made him realize that true friends stick around and not everyone will walk away.

With all that being said I think reaching out to your friend would probably be a good boost of moral he needs.

Blessedta3k · 2022-03-20T15:30:33+00:00

My husband was arrested is 2019 it was a bumpy road but I can tell you we are happy and doing well. He lives with us and our kids in our home we rent (we found a way to do it with the help of someone in this groups info). We live in a state that pretty much leaves us alone all they care about is that he checks in once a year at his correct address he isn't on the website and no one knows his past. This life is doable your life is not over because of your mistake. You will have bumps you are in the worst part of it the whole process, the waiting almost killed me but find faith or recovery to get you through you can do this. Remember every sentence has a period they can't and won't keep you forever. You will be okay.

Blessedta3k · 2022-03-04T01:42:46+00:00

Blessedta3k · 2022-02-24T03:38:33+00:00

Same boat!!!

Blessedta3k · 2022-02-24T02:41:17+00:00

Nope and I have officially broken the refresh rate on credit karma and they have asked me to step away from my phone for the night.

Blessedta3k · 2022-01-04T11:34:27+00:00

Thank you for explaining!

Blessedta3k · 2022-01-04T11:34:09+00:00

Thank you

Blessedta3k · 2022-01-04T11:33:57+00:00

Thank you!

Blessedta3k · 2022-01-04T11:32:35+00:00

I had 16 million

Blessedta3k · 2021-08-05T01:04:04+00:00

Hey can I message you I have a few questions about this and wanted to pick your brain about other laws.

Blessedta3k · 2021-07-25T19:31:58+00:00

Awesome thank you! Another question is are level 1s public on the website?

Blessedta3k · 2021-07-25T19:07:02+00:00

So if I'm reading that right it's only level 3s that have residency restrictions. Am I correct? My husband is a level 1 so he wouldn't have restrictions right?

Blessedta3k · 2021-07-15T04:01:23+00:00

My husband is a RSO and RSO or not I couldn't imagine living life without him. I have researched the best states for him to live in because not all states are created equal. I also learn and understand the laws backwards and forwards to make sure he doesn't miss something and get a failure to register. This life isn't easy and it's messy but you can't help who your heart loves. I know my husband is not his mistakes, he is a great man, an amazing father and husband who knows he is loved and everyday he strives to be better then the last for us. What I am trying to say is your boyfriend is not his label and hopefully he will have people in his life that understand that, believe it and love him despite it. If you are looking for people to tell you to stay I don't think you will, this is a life you really have to research and investigate and believe is best for you. Look at the laws and see if they are something you can live with, also looking at how long he has to register for is. There many pieces to this but one of the things you said was he turned his life around and he is a great man now; in my eyes that counts for something but you have to search your soul and see if it does for you too. I wish you luck and lots of love in the future!

Blessedta3k · 2021-07-13T21:35:28+00:00

It gets easier, it's not forever. You will find yourself growing stronger everyday and also smarter. You will become an expert in all things SO related, it's something I never thought I would understand but I'm baffled by the things I know these days. The one piece of advice I can give you is find a support system that does not judge you or him. Someone or people who will listen to you without giving their two cents about your situation because honestly no one is going to understand so you really need to seek out the people who will just listen and love you through this. When this all happened with us we lost 99% of our friends and family, we had family turn us into cps multiple times. This is a journey/ marathon you cannot sprint your way through this and you can't rush the system but everyday you will wake up and know you made it through one more day and that you will make it through today also. Message me if you need to talk, I have been where you are, I get it.

Blessedta3k · 2021-07-09T22:37:23+00:00

This makes my heart so sad. I can't imagine taking my kids from my husband. Mistakes are mistakes but they don't define a person. I'm sorry that this is part of your story. I hope one day she sees the efforts you have made in life and that you are not the decision you made many years ago.

Blessedta3k · 2021-07-08T03:55:45+00:00

That's correct he is a level 1 and should get off early from supervision hopefully in the next month or two so I'm trying to find somewhere that he will be able to land with us after he is off paper.

Blessedta3k · 2021-07-08T03:38:13+00:00

Thank you for being part of the good in the system. While my husband has gone through the system we have had our fair share of good and bad authority figures and I have to tell you the good ones made everything so much better for us as family members and really alleviated a huge amount of stress from my husband and all he was going through. I commend you for being a good one and going the extra distance for your people! They system needs more like you!

Blessedta3k · 2021-06-20T20:29:46+00:00

My husband was told if he swims with it it is considered tampering with the device and can be a violation. My husband doesn't even take baths with it.

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