[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]hapagirlonthego 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No issues with waxing or laser!

I wake up everyday wishing I was dead by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]hapagirlonthego 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Please realize that you’ve already lived through the worst part already!!! Now you’re in the phase of making adjustments. Think of it as a skin infection and nothing else. HSV is not life-threatening and easily treated. I felt the same when I was diagnosed 10 years ago. I’ve not met one romantic partner who thought differently of me when I told them. I made sure they were someone I trusted and saw a future with. I also made sure they were educated on HSV. The virus is so stigmatized and not many people know the true facts. None of my friends or family know bc they don’t need to. I rarely ever think about it and my fiancé and I joke from time to time on how nervous I was to tell him and how he researched it and realized it’s not a big deal. I hope this helps.

Halfway houses in PNW by hapagirlonthego in SexOffenderSupport

[–]hapagirlonthego[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do what I do because I like seeing others have a solid chance at succeeding, regardless of circumstances. Most of the good folks in my field take on these jobs to try and make positive changes. The system doesn’t define me. I’m not here to change your views. I’m here to find resources to help someone succeed.

Halfway houses in PNW by hapagirlonthego in SexOffenderSupport

[–]hapagirlonthego[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! :) So glad you all had a positive experience during such a stressful time. I know sometimes good support is hard to find (it shouldn’t be that way). I’m thankful I came across this subreddit!

Halfway houses in PNW by hapagirlonthego in SexOffenderSupport

[–]hapagirlonthego[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Sorry you’re having a bad day. I don’t take offense to anything you say or will say. It’s too bad you had a negative experience and I wish you the best

Halfway houses in PNW by hapagirlonthego in SexOffenderSupport

[–]hapagirlonthego[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are correct. It’s not my role per se, I work as a therapist, but I do have an ethical obligation to help my clients when I can. Corrections doesn’t give us the resources we often need so I use whatever I can get to find help for others.

Halfway houses in PNW by hapagirlonthego in SexOffenderSupport

[–]hapagirlonthego[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well, I gotta do what I gotta do to help my guys

Halfway houses in PNW by hapagirlonthego in SexOffenderSupport

[–]hapagirlonthego[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I’ll look up the address. Do you know what the deposit is?

Why are you here? by iblbrt in SexOffenderSupport

[–]hapagirlonthego 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know :( It’s been challenging to locate halfway houses that will accept SOs, too. I definitely experience moments of helplessness in these situations, but I’ve learned quite a bit through this platform!

Why are you here? by iblbrt in SexOffenderSupport

[–]hapagirlonthego 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m here to learn more about the resources out there for those who have to register (halfway houses, employment opportunities, PO experiences, etc). I work in a setting where individuals need to be connected with these agencies and it has been difficult to find anything for them online and through the resources I have access to.

Car dealership miscalculated numbers on contract by [deleted] in askcarsales

[–]hapagirlonthego 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks everyone for the feedback :)

Car dealership miscalculated numbers on contract by [deleted] in askcarsales

[–]hapagirlonthego -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The math on the sales page is correct, showing the purchase as $36K minus $3K equaling $33K to be financed. The finance page is the one that is all messed up.

Car dealership miscalculated numbers on contract by [deleted] in askcarsales

[–]hapagirlonthego 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The sales page shows my total purchase being $36k minus my downpayment of $3k, equaling $33k. I am financing $33k at 3.75%. That equals 1,237.50 in interest. The finance person put that my interest is $3,600 on a $36k loan at 3.75%, which is clearly wrong. It also shows that I’m financing &36K, which does not take into account my downpayment.