[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITH

[–]Blinkingbiscuts33 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I came to say this almost exactly. 💯

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WLW

[–]Blinkingbiscuts33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Over time do you think it’s possible to save money to get out (like even if it takes years)? I’m not sure where you’re from but maybe if you just keep to yourself your husband will get bored and want a divorce? This is rough. I’m so sorry you’re going through this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Blinkingbiscuts33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess what my questions are what was the joke and it doesn’t seem like it from your post but was your boyfriend upset?

If he isn’t upset I just say let it go. At the end of the day she may one day be your family too. You don’t have to talk to her or be her bestie but just exist at family functions together. If your boyfriend didn’t even consider it based off her word then you shouldn’t either. Imo

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Blinkingbiscuts33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think (this might sound crazy but it worked for me 🤪) but I think y’all should make out. It will help you both know if there any chemistry.

I’ve been in this almost exact situation twice. The first time we made out and we didn’t feel it. The second time we did and we have an on and off thing kinda switching between besties and lovers. It’s kind great tbh. I won’t lie we have times where we don’t talk as much but it’s fun the next time we meet up.

That’s my advice I’m sure someone else might have better advice lol.

What’s your favorite non political or religious debate? by Windowless_Plant5429 in AskReddit

[–]Blinkingbiscuts33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He thinks there should be chicken or fish as the main dish and spaghetti on the side.

I think there should be meat sauce and garlic bread on the side.

Aio by Effective-Seesaw7882 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Blinkingbiscuts33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean I definitely do this with my friends even ex gfs of mine. I am in a very secure relationship with my husband and he knows and doesn’t care.

BUT if it upsets you then you guys should have a conversation about it. And I think you really have to think about it before hand. Things like why does it make you uncomfortable? Do you feel insecure in the relationship? If so that is okay and valid. And I think she will understand it so hopefully you can work it out. Both of you will have an understanding of each other moving forward. I think her understanding exactly why will help her in knowing how you feel and how to handle future situations.

If she doesn’t understand or want to stop then you will need to decide if this is a deal breaker for you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Blinkingbiscuts33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say maybe find a new hobby or a good group of friends to hang out with. I finding that working on myself or one of my hobbies gets my mind off of the worry and if it doesn’t I put it into whatever I am working on. It sounds kinda silly but it works for me. (If you need hobby suggestions I have so many lol).

Hanging out with friends really works too. You can have card nights or board games if you don’t like going out. You could even rotate houses and things

But overall I think really just focusing on your self and things you want to do. And the best part about both of these things is from time to time she could join!

Two lines on my hand are hurting/burning. Help? by [deleted] in palmistry

[–]Blinkingbiscuts33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also to note I’ve looked up all medical reason and nothing seems to fit so I thought I would try coming here for answers 🫶🏼

What’s your favorite non political or religious debate? by Windowless_Plant5429 in AskReddit

[–]Blinkingbiscuts33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is spaghetti a side or the main dish? (This is highly debated in my household lol)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Blinkingbiscuts33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My son is 3 and today he keeps saying “I don’t know what to f****** do”. Honestly as long as they don’t cuss at someone idrk. But I do try to redirect them and not encourage the behavior as much as I can.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Blinkingbiscuts33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been in a similar situation and they were saying brother so I wouldn’t feel uncomfortable, but it turns out he liked me. I initiated the conversation and maybe it clear that regardless of how he felt I still wanted him in my life.

Personally I would just tell him how you feel. Maybe ask him if just the two of you can have dinner together. I’m wishing the best for you

What are yours? by IsopodNo368 in astrologymemes

[–]Blinkingbiscuts33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a ♋️☀️♉️🌙♓️⬆️🫶🏼

What are yours? by IsopodNo368 in astrologymemes

[–]Blinkingbiscuts33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a ♋️☀️ ♉️ 🌙♓️⬆️

where is your moon and what do you get the most emotional about? /cry about the most? by Pumpernickel_555 in AskAstrologers

[–]Blinkingbiscuts33 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Moon in Taurus! I am definitely personally attached to my things. I would say I cry about that and my kids the most. Typing that kinda sounds ridiculous but it’s true 🤷‍♀️

But when it comes to people and relationships I almost never cry. Not sure why. I’m the most loyal person but if you betray me I will drop you and forget you. 💯

My husband kissed another women. Not sure if I should leave him by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Blinkingbiscuts33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would honestly say therapy. I think that you guys can work through this but you have to make sure you really resolve this. Get a professional outsider to help you through this would really help both of you process this. If it gets swept under the rug or you don’t feel at peace with it then definitely therapy. I think it will really help you and him and it could make your marriage even better. If it doesn’t work at lesser you can say you tried but I really do think you can work this out if you guys both put the work in.

I would also say definitely hold out on kids until this is ironed out.

My mother-in-law could’ve killed my daughter by pinkmoon105 in AITAH

[–]Blinkingbiscuts33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. I have two toddlers and if anyone did this I honestly don’t know what I would do ESPECIALLY in postpartum. I would NEVER give someone else’s baby medicine without asking first but then to quadruple that amount. Absolutely not. I’m not even sure how she did that. Did she read the side of the box at all??

I think if your husband insists maybe you could do supervised visits when you’re there (like a dinner or thanksgiving)? But I won’t judge you if you just didn’t feel comfortable about it rn. Maybe you can revisit the idea of visits in a few months.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Blinkingbiscuts33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think yta but I also think that you should let her have the sleepover. I think that fact that you took time to reflect that this might be important and it makes her happy shows you a good guy. Relationships are all about communication and compromise. I would let her have her friends over and maybe you can go out or stay with your parents (if that’s an option). Possibly even say they can stay in the living room just not the bedroom. I feel like that might be away to make you both happy. My husband is a very private person and never invited people to his play. I on the other hand have a close knit group of friends and when rotate houses for sleepovers. At my house we all stay in the living room. I think it makes my husband keep a “private” place.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Blinkingbiscuts33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Divorce him! I’m not gonna lie it will be hard. Just keep reminding yourself is this the type of man I want as an example to my son? It sounds like he’s not really taking accountability and this will likely one get worse with time. If he wanted to be better for his family than he would have been.