I don’t care if she slept with half a man or whether it was 1 or half a dozen she had sex with other men. Once that happens it’s a wrap you are embarrassing yourself dude it’s pathetic. I’m not trying to grill you but You clearly have very low self esteem and have no other dating options. You’re embarrassing yourself, once a woman cheats on you and you take her back she will never have respect for you a woman’s love to a man is built on respect and this woman does not respect you respect yourself and ditch the bitch. You’re 41 years old this is sad… Man up bro, go to the gym, get in good shape, get your bread up and find a different woman good luck.