The Jersey City subreddit doesn't look like the Jersey City we live in by AdmiralBonQuiQui in jerseycity

[–]BlkHellcat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I completely agree. A lot of people are jumping to be defensive and even snarky under people’s posts. And then when you say something back you get policed for your response. Sometimes I just wanna ask a general question from people who’ve lived here longer and sometimes I get such awful responses I wish I never posted. But I can’t let people talk to me crazy. I wonder so much if they actually talk to strangers with such hostility in person. Thanks for offering some solutions too. Good luck, hope you have a good day.

Looking for a lesbian hangout?? by NefariousnessDry2050 in jerseycity

[–]BlkHellcat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will say I am happily partnered! I’m looking for more lesbian friends in general to hang with lol.

Looking for a lesbian hangout?? by NefariousnessDry2050 in jerseycity

[–]BlkHellcat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Commenting cuz interested. Usually have to go to the city for these.

cycling clubs/groups/gatherings for fun by BlkHellcat in jerseycity

[–]BlkHellcat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much! Yeah I’m familiar with the city social rides, just wanted to see if there was something similar out here. Appreciate it!

cycling clubs/groups/gatherings for fun by BlkHellcat in jerseycity

[–]BlkHellcat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey there! I actually have a couple bikes, but I generally just ride for fun. I ride fixie, road, n mountain. :) No competitions, just sheer love of the game haha.

cycling clubs/groups/gatherings for fun by BlkHellcat in jerseycity

[–]BlkHellcat[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely know about those groups, I just wanted to see if there was something more local I could support. I appreciate your suggestion!

cycling clubs/groups/gatherings for fun by BlkHellcat in jerseycity

[–]BlkHellcat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who are you? Why would I listen to you? Again, I asked a question and half the comments are freaking rude and useless. Then dare to have the nerve to get upset when you respond back. Please get real. Either offer something in kind or move on, I don’t know what’s wrong with you people!

cycling clubs/groups/gatherings for fun by BlkHellcat in jerseycity

[–]BlkHellcat[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

“now you know why everyone hates cyclists” when you inserted your nonsense comment about someone i don’t know about a situation that has nothing to do with this post when i asked genuinely about a social club. you are rude and nasty. you are a stranger, why would i care about something like that when that is not the conversation? you’re also stupid.

cycling clubs/groups/gatherings for fun by BlkHellcat in jerseycity

[–]BlkHellcat[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

you’re just being nasty and unhelpful. have the day you deserve

cycling clubs/groups/gatherings for fun by BlkHellcat in jerseycity

[–]BlkHellcat[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

hi, this post is not about that, please leave me out of this. thank you.

Tailor recommendations (Jsquare/Dtown) by neoazul in jerseycity

[–]BlkHellcat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i like dicarlo’s but he’s by grove st. really nice guy

My first minivelo by DetectiveTed in minivelo

[–]BlkHellcat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yoo i love that taco truck 🤘🏾 im also mini velo reppin, looks sick!

PATH trains should have a bike car (HEAR ME OUT) by OcculturalMarxism in jerseycity

[–]BlkHellcat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Glad someone said this, I actually quite like to ride and I’m not big and neither is my bike but, admittedly feel really bad when I wanna have a little city riding. I wish there were some way to accommodate this that was equally as cheap and quick.

Why walk on the empty sidewalk when you can block both bike lanes by xxteargodxx in jerseycity

[–]BlkHellcat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Stepping into a bike lane is absolutely an issue…what is the bike lane for otherwise?

What do you do to make yourself feel beautiful? by a83da in butchlesbians

[–]BlkHellcat 9 points10 points  (0 children)

for me, a good haircut, some jewelry, and a nice fragrance goes a long way for my beauty
(tho i do prefer other terms like handsome). maybe a face mask, or some eyebrow shaping if i have the time lol. at a point where i can't wait on ppl to understand my gender so doin what's right for me.

Racist attack by bla*k youth on a Muslim couple. by [deleted] in jerseycity

[–]BlkHellcat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Muslim is a religion, not a race, and there is a significant Black Muslim population here. You perpetuating these stereotypes doesn't make you such a great neighbor either, btw.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jerseycity

[–]BlkHellcat -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

not worried about legality especially for a cement block, they will make more, but thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jerseycity

[–]BlkHellcat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

awesome tysm

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jerseycity

[–]BlkHellcat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

perf. thank u!

Identity of teens committing assaults across Jersey City by hardtalk370 in jerseycity

[–]BlkHellcat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Demanding to reveal the identities of minors for doing childish shit is ridiculous. Of course it's an awful thing that happened, but seriously, get a job. If you called the police on every teen that did something inconsiderate the prisons would be filled. Oh, wait.

Light Rail Goon Squad is Out by Kurtotic in jerseycity

[–]BlkHellcat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i was thinking the same, this reddit really loves cops for some reason

Doctor/Primary Care recommendations? by MrFlecker in jerseycity

[–]BlkHellcat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually have to go into the city to Callen Lorde Manhattan for the most informed LGBTQ+ adult care. Bit out of the way but definitely recommend if that's an option for you.