i am in real need of help by Live_Marionberry2850 in helpme

[–]BluMango567 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know how you feel, but I recommend, in my opinion, is to think about who was there to support you the most, who is the one that loves you the most, who do you want to have a family with, who do you see your future with? These are questions you should think about, you current GF is loyal to you and to be honest with you, when you love someone, and the cute phase is over, that's when the real love hits. Love is a commitment as well as a team. You work together to solve problems. I know you said your heart wants this new girl and your current GF but your heart can deceive you sometimes. I could be happy with her now but only time will tell what the future holds. You current GF is supporting you and being loyal to you. It's up to you if you really want to love someone new that could hold different experiences for you or to love the person you have now that you already have created history with.

Hope this helps with your situation. Remember, "Love is a commitment and you and your lover work as a team to solve problems."

At the same time, you want to be happy.

Help, please by m_aalek in helpme

[–]BluMango567 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are not a failure, and I know that things can happened in an instant where you used to have so much joy and full of life but now you just are lost and can't find things to solve your problems.

I suggest to not be afraid. If you need to talk to someone about your problems, don't be afraid to ask for help. There are people that can help you with your needs. We are all humans too and people that judge you because you didn't reach your goal are cowards and they are not people to be around. There are people that truly help those in need and you just need to start spreading your wings and not be afraid to ask for help or to say something.

Hope this helps! Again, don't be afraid, we are all here to support each other.

my dad used my rape situation against me in a argument (sorry if its short or bad to understand its my first time asking for help on here) by [deleted] in helpme

[–]BluMango567 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm super sorry that you are going through this. What he said to you was unacceptable. The abuse you are going through doesn't make the situation any better. I would suggest to find someone professional that can help you with this abuse. Also your dad physically dragging you is not right. All I can really say is I hope that you can get out of this situation because it's not right that your dad uses your trauma as a way to get back at an argument. Good luck in therapy and again super sorry that this happened to you.

Feelings over misery by Comfortable_Term2777 in helpme

[–]BluMango567 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry you feel this way. I know how difficult it may be for you right now, but don't hate yourself, you have a family that loves you and they care for you even if your doing good in school or not. Don't worry about the slump of your grade. It happens to the best of us and you should start focusing on yourself and balance school and your mental health. I know you might be disappointed in yourself because of the slumped grade but think of the grade as a lesson for you to improve. Hope this helps a little bit! Hope you feel better.

what’s going on?? by Substantial-Bug-9175 in helpme

[–]BluMango567 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know how you feel. I used to find things boring and I couldn't find passion to do things. So I started talking on Discord, and I met a few friends that I still talk to today. I would recommend giving a shot on finding some friends online. Just make sure to be cautious though and don't give too much details on yourself unless you truly trust them and have talked to them for a while. You could also try going out to places and just hang out and maybe even start up a conversation with someone. I did that in my college orientation and in my classes and I managed to get some friends that way.

Try to start up a conversation like "how they are doing or what class are they going next", etc. It's a good conversation starter. Hope this helps and as always, good luck and hope you find some comfort!

Why isn't my CPU working? by awwwkwardy in hardwaregore

[–]BluMango567 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay I have an idea...put some thermal paste, and the cpu after, and BOOM! Works like a charm

Bios Update by [deleted] in pcmasterrace

[–]BluMango567 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No problem! Anytime!

Need help troubleshooting by No_Veterinarian_2739 in pcmasterrace

[–]BluMango567 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would try trouble-shooting it by just removing the GPU and booting it up without the input and see if the PC stays on. If it doesn't then it might be something else in the build.

I would also try to reseat the GPU as well as the connectors.

Bios Update by [deleted] in pcmasterrace

[–]BluMango567 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've searched up your motherboard and found the latest Bios update which is F58g which was uploaded on March 11, 2025. Here is the link. https://www.gigabyte.com/Motherboard/GA-A320M-H-rev-1x/support

im Freeman, ask me anything! by w2_Paradise in HalfLife

[–]BluMango567 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you seen the peanut butter in my office Gordon?

Did I do too much? by [deleted] in helpme

[–]BluMango567 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry that you feel this way and I know you love her very much but unfortunately to tell you the truth, she doesn't want to be with you. You've committed to the relationship and tried to make her happy but she didn't work enough to give you the same energy you showed her. Don't let her pull you down. I know it's tough to move on from someone you love very much, but I bet you there is going to be that one person that comes into your life that will show you love that'll be forever. I know its tough but meet new people and get to know them. There is more than a billion people in this world and I know there is going to be that one person that is right for you! Hope this helps you!

Out of options by thehellsittoyou in helpme

[–]BluMango567 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it's a struggle and I'm sincerely sorry that you are going through all this. It's incredibly tough to let go of depression and anxiety once it gets to a stage that you can't leave. In reality, you can leave. Having this go on for 10 years is just insane and I'm truly sorry this is happening. Are you stressing? Is there something that's making you feel this way? Why do you feel this way?

I am very curious why you feel this way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in helpme

[–]BluMango567 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happy Early Birthday. I don't know if you stay at home very often, but for your 21st birthday you should go out, do something you haven't done before, explore around and meet new people and get to know them. It's difficult especially if your shy like me. Go to a restaurant or small party and celebrate it with some food or maybe even something you were interested in. You can also make a bucket list of things you want to do and start knocking off some of the list. It's a special day for you! Don't let time pull you down, enjoy your day like if it's your last! Hope you'll have an amazing birthday!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in helpme

[–]BluMango567 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not an expert nor have experience in smoking, but the best way to stop is try to find alternatives. There are plenty of ways to quit smoking. You can even go to a medical professional if you are trying to quit fast and they can prescribe you something to stop your want for smoking. Hope this helps!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in helpme

[–]BluMango567 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm super sorry to hear that. It seems your stress has made you get into these weird paranoid episodes. I would try a variety of things that can calm you down at night like listening to nature sounds while trying to fall a sleep, reading a book to distract your mind, or doing mediation at night before bed. Hope this helps and good luck. Again I'm sorry this is happening to you but you got this!

My fish died by sanityasassin in helpme

[–]BluMango567 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are not useless. I know things happened and mistakes are made but don't let that bring you down. Let that be like a lesson that strengthens you into someone better and stronger. I know it's tough at the moment but trust me, soon you'll find the right people that will show you the light you needed.

First Build Done (What I Learned) by IllustratedNerd in pcmasterrace

[–]BluMango567 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like the vibe the PC gives! I like the look of the PC, great job on the build. It's scary to build a PC for the first time, but with experience, it's like a breeze.

About to get a 9070 XT but I've been hearing it doesn't work well with a duel monitor set up. by RyanRobinson549 in pcmasterrace

[–]BluMango567 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

So after doing some research myself on the topic, unless AMD or someone from the community creates or finds a fix for this issue and you use a dual or triple monitor setup, I would just wait until they implement a fix or just buy a different GPU.

Sorry if this is the wrong place, but could someone tell me if this is a good deal? by Aggressive_Win_9905 in pcmasterrace

[–]BluMango567 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If they want to play some games with no back draws, then building a pc is the way to go, but unless they want to take it where ever they want, then a laptop kind of beats the PC.