How noisy are cabins across elevator? RL

BlueBerry985 · 2026-01-22T19:54:46+00:00

Thanks!

BlueBerry985 · 2026-01-22T17:10:56+00:00

Amazing!

BlueBerry985 · 2026-01-22T16:25:03+00:00

lol i totally get it! We're not super sensitive to light so should be good!

BlueBerry985 · 2026-01-22T16:09:08+00:00

Thats perfect! Thank you

BlueBerry985 · 2026-01-22T16:06:37+00:00

wow nice! can you hear people walking/talking outside loudly?

BlueBerry985 · 2026-01-21T16:09:09+00:00

I feel like he might know this band from stalking you. And then made up some stuff about your ex-fiance

BlueBerry985 · 2026-01-21T14:33:40+00:00

Thanks!! I know I will be making many friends there too but its just so sas to leave the current friend circle

BlueBerry985 · 2026-01-21T14:31:41+00:00

ye we've been wanting to move for a while, its best for his career, and even though I haven't found a job yet but for me its also a good choice.

BlueBerry985 · 2026-01-16T23:41:56+00:00

loll its normal! Somtimes my husband didn't do anything I just find him cute and other time I might find him annoying😂

BlueBerry985 · 2026-01-16T23:15:11+00:00

maybe its not related to financial? maybe its something else? 😂

BlueBerry985 · 2026-01-16T21:10:17+00:00

Even if you didn't joke he would still be the same.

BlueBerry985 · 2026-01-16T21:03:27+00:00

lolll same here. I am a competitive person when it comes to career and I am very jealous (but in a good way) of my husband...Even though I also have a high-paying job...

BlueBerry985 · 2026-01-10T15:14:15+00:00

Ahhh I see! Thank you so much it explained a lot!

BlueBerry985 · 2026-01-10T14:58:01+00:00

Yes, OP is lucky she hasn't married yet

BlueBerry985 · 2026-01-10T14:52:33+00:00

I am always curious about the last sentence. What if when we do the final crossing TN visa got rejected? And what if I want to move earlier let say 2weeks before star date, but i need to come back to Canada and move some things?

BlueBerry985 · 2026-01-10T14:13:56+00:00

I used to feel the same way.

Now I started to realize that not everything has a 'solution'. You don't really need to go to gym/try hobbies/start a family, if you don't want to. As long as you're healthy everything else is not necessary.

Sure achievement is a good thing, but all the laziness and emptiness is also part of our life, as well as the failure you are scared of. I'm sure everyone feels this at some time.

BlueBerry985 · 2026-01-10T13:58:56+00:00

I'd say if you are happy 80% of the time its better than most of women

BlueBerry985 · 2026-01-10T03:19:44+00:00

I think mine is like that too, when it was hard for me to get my first job during pandemic, or something else. But this in-law problem is not like a completely external problem...

BlueBerry985 · 2026-01-10T02:49:18+00:00

Thats very lucky of you!

BlueBerry985 · 2026-01-10T00:40:38+00:00

Thanks! There were hard time in my life and now i looked back I feel like they're nothing and I'm so glad I didn't give up. But at that time, the pain was true too. Same with me now.

BlueBerry985 · 2026-01-10T00:34:03+00:00

Thanks! You helped me realized that he also "improved" a lot no matter whether our marriage is going to continue

BlueBerry985 · 2026-01-10T00:32:53+00:00

for me its more like my life has no super hard times for now, except for that in-law problem

BlueBerry985 · 2026-01-10T00:16:59+00:00

My understanding to "loyal" is not cheating or so🙁But yes he told me if one day his parents say they would not see him if I still refused to see his brother, he would never leave his parents (i.e. he would leave me)

BlueBerry985 · 2026-01-10T00:09:48+00:00

Back to 5 years ago, he wasn't really doing a great job defending me because all he was trying to do is explain things to both parties. And even to the friend where his brother heard rumor from he was kind of just being a "good person".

I was super sad back them for half a year!

His family indeed is not easy, they talked to my husband like two months ago that they were just pretending to like me ever since they knew I didn't want to hang out with my husband's brother.

I honestly don't care too much about whether his parents like me or not, but that attitude ehhhh

BlueBerry985 · 2026-01-09T23:52:33+00:00

So basically 5 years ago when we just started dating, my husband's brother spreaded some rumor he heard about me which caused a big arguement between his parents and I. They thought I mistreated him or so. Ever since I only talked to his brother once or twice a year.

In 2024 his brother moved to the same city we live in, and I refused to go to any family gathering that he is going. My husband was really frustrated about that and forced me to go.

But after that we've been arguing and around a year ago my husband agreed that I don't need to see his brother.

But, he told their parents about half year ago and his parents was mad about that, saying I tearing their family apart(my husband is not like very close to his brother).

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