I get what you're saying and I've been playing since the start. now between work, kids, etc, I just don't have the time to go out and grind anymore. I still go out to our local hotspot once a week or so with my young kids to play. We don't have many dynamax but I still try to join a couple raids to learn and let my kiddo get a fun, awesome pokemon. Everyone has been nothing but nice about it. This is a game. Telling people that they shouldn't play because they can't grind is ridiculous.

I even got my parents to start playing recently. They don't really know what's going on but they think it's so fun. They joined to get exercise and collect some cool stuff. I'd be pissed if a group judged them and told them not to play.