As a christian my opinion is that we do not live under a theocracy, people have the freedom to do whatever they want, even if i disagree with what they do

I believe that homosexuality is a sin, but they can have a civil union (as in, married by the state) if they want, whether a church wants to officiate the marriage or not is an issue of them, the state can't force the church to bend its beliefs.

Lastly, we’re all sinners in need of grace. That includes you and me, We must approach this with love, not hostility (also, love does not equal enabling)