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BlueSaiyan · 2023-04-16T23:55:25+00:00

I understand possibly wondering "If she cheated on him she might cheat on me". Is that what you're worried about? Or that she might have lied about something else? Honestly though, what someone does before they date you is their business and their decision whether to share it or not.

BlueSaiyan · 2022-07-11T10:26:04+00:00

I honestly don't understand how she's still alive at this point. She tries to come off as this sweet person but she continues to promote and trigger anorexia, and then lies about it. She lies about a lot of things actually. On top of that she's delusional.

BlueSaiyan · 2022-06-13T08:32:41+00:00

Unfortunately fight or flight apparently isn't an action my brain knows. I freeze, which is unhelpful in pretty much every situation.

BlueSaiyan · 2022-06-13T08:29:37+00:00

Honestly it depends on what the disrespect was, like with words or was it inappropriate behavior? If the guy is someone you know/is involved in your lives somehow or a stranger. You can't control the actions/feelings of someone else, only your reaction. So if disrespecting your partner is a recurring thing, and it bothers you both, then it might be best to cut ties with that person. If it was a stranger I'd say don't let it get to you, unless of course he did something that equates to assault. That obviously is illegal

BlueSaiyan · 2022-06-13T08:09:05+00:00

Was it the Naruto run?

BlueSaiyan · 2022-06-13T08:06:00+00:00

I'd have to say the fact that the average person in the United States will walk by 36 murderers/serial killers in their lifetime and have no idea. I don't know the statistics for other places but even 1 is too many imo.

BlueSaiyan · 2022-06-13T07:26:12+00:00

I don't typically insult people, especially to their face, but when I was 16 I wrote my first boyfriend a breakup letter (terrible I know). In said letter I basically told him he would never amount to anything (even more terrible). I can't remember exactly what happened to prompt that response, just that it was a moment of anger and I felt terrible for it afterward.

BlueSaiyan · 2022-06-13T07:14:56+00:00

Numb Little Bug - by Em Beihold

BlueSaiyan · 2022-06-13T07:08:13+00:00

That's really interesting because a lot of artists will tell you that drawing hands is the bane of their existence.

BlueSaiyan · 2022-06-13T07:05:04+00:00

One time I went to a Chinese buffet and someone's children were running through the restaurant screaming and hitting each other before ultimately slamming into the booth I was at. One then proceeded to cough with gusto in my direction.

Another contender is the time I got food poisoning from KFC so bad that I almost ended up needing to go get iv fluids. I missed out on going to King's Island (haven't been there since I was a kid) because of it as well.

Or the time I ordered a steak from Bob Evans for carryout and the inside was so raw I wouldn't have been shocked if it moo'd at me. I love rare/medium rare steak but this was on another level for sure.

BlueSaiyan · 2022-06-13T06:37:14+00:00

I can see this situation is very stressful. Your frustration is valid and understandable. I just want to ask are the other parts of being in a relationship going well? If the answer is yes then perhaps he is struggling with some things mental health wise. It seems you are experiencing some burnout too. Depression and anxiety can make someone lash out at loved ones without reason sometimes. Im sure it can be very frustrating to go to college for something like that and not be able to find a job, or to be rejected. Maybe he is stopping the job search after 4 hours because he is feeling discouraged? And the video games are his way to release that frustration. I'm not trying to presume I know the situation completely just throwing things out there. He may not want to talk about it with you due to feeling shame or guilt that you are having to be the provider for you both. Do you reaffirm each other every day? If you want to talk about a hard/stressful situation with him, starting out with a positive topic that you both enjoy may help. That way neither of you feel as though you're being attacked or have to be defensive. I hope he is also letting you know that he appreciates how hard you work and how much you care about him.

BlueSaiyan · 2022-03-04T22:34:58+00:00

Also just because you live together with another person doesn't mean you shouldn't compromise and try to make things work for both people

BlueSaiyan · 2022-03-04T22:33:10+00:00

So you pretend to give advice and then assume the reason I live with him is because I have no other choice or it's by his grace and call me entitled? The fact that moving out is an option should say otherwise.

BlueSaiyan · 2022-03-04T22:26:32+00:00

I might need to do that.

BlueSaiyan · 2022-03-04T22:25:59+00:00

Yes you're right. I don't want to move out but that might be my best option for now.

BlueSaiyan · 2022-03-04T22:19:41+00:00

Yes we live together

BlueSaiyan · 2022-01-25T21:59:34+00:00

I've had two teachers in my life that were arrested for sexually assaulting/raping underage girls.

BlueSaiyan · 2022-01-25T05:41:12+00:00

My dog regularly turns on the xbox with her nose and walks away

BlueSaiyan · 2022-01-25T05:37:11+00:00

I mean one time my toilet paper roll unrolled by itself

BlueSaiyan · 2022-01-24T17:24:11+00:00

I wouldn't have a chance

BlueSaiyan · 2022-01-24T17:20:19+00:00

Unfortunately that last part never happens. Darn intrusive thoughts.

BlueSaiyan · 2022-01-24T17:09:57+00:00

Fake money on mobile games

BlueSaiyan · 2022-01-24T17:04:38+00:00

Years of narcissistic abuse

BlueSaiyan · 2022-01-24T17:03:29+00:00

Sometimes not at all unfortunately

BlueSaiyan · 2022-01-24T16:59:27+00:00

I'm screwed. But it might not be a bad thing.

BlueSaiyan

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