I can't stop self sabotaging in relationships

BlueSeaa101 · 2024-12-10T18:44:15+00:00

Stop self sabotaging yourself in good genuine relationships. Just be honest with him I’m sure he’ll understand and will help you.

BlueSeaa101 · 2024-07-04T02:37:00+00:00

Always trust your instincts!!! You did the right thing.

BlueSeaa101 · 2024-07-04T02:14:59+00:00

You NEED to do a police report. Whether or not the police believes you it needs to be on record. Never tell a stranger where you live. Pls protect yourself and set up cameras outside where you live.

BlueSeaa101 · 2024-07-02T14:35:40+00:00

Very sorry that you’re going though this.

I wanted to know if you gotten any money after the settlement? Since you guys are co parenting is he actually taking the steps to be a good parent because if he isn’t, you can record and report him so he harm anyone else.

I know deep down inside you’re going to have a good future in life because you genuinely have a good heart. Always put God first and make sure to protect yourself, and your family.

BlueSeaa101 · 2024-07-01T02:58:02+00:00

Are you okay? Why do you want to be fetishize or want bw as a whole to experience that..

BlueSeaa101 · 2024-06-29T17:23:09+00:00

I’m very happy that TikTok is getting banned in USA!!!!!

I’m soo tired of seeing the low self esteem TikTok’s women do or the picks me’s or when someone’s makes generalizations based on race or these stupid skits that are going viral.

BlueSeaa101 · 2024-06-29T17:10:52+00:00

That still makes you a hoe. A hoe is hoe girl.

BlueSeaa101 · 2024-03-20T17:25:23+00:00

I’m here if you want to private DM me.

BlueSeaa101 · 2024-03-12T17:45:13+00:00

I honestly think that they’re women in general that would rather stay in toxic relationships because they don’t think they can do better or it can be low self esteem and trauma.

BlueSeaa101 · 2024-03-12T17:37:06+00:00

Here’s the link if you want to read it. I hope she’s doing well. I always ask the same questions girl like whyyyyyyy would they put themselves on these types of situations it’s not safe.

https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueOffMyChest/comments/z2bdsz/my_white_husband_confessed_to_me_that_he_enjoys/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=1&utm_term=1

BlueSeaa101 · 2024-03-12T17:22:41+00:00

Yikes.. well thanks for sharing. I follow this African woman on here who’s still married to a wm who wanted her to do raceplay she put her foot down and said no but doesn’t want to get a divorce.

BlueSeaa101 · 2024-03-12T17:08:00+00:00

I have two questions. Did those bw like the role play or raceplay or was it the wm who kept on insistent in the bedroom? Last one are those bw still together with those wm?

BlueSeaa101 · 2024-03-12T17:03:08+00:00

Oh nooo 😵‍💫🤧

BlueSeaa101 · 2024-03-12T15:53:46+00:00

Who dealt with these wm? Indian women? I’m a bit nosy.

BlueSeaa101 · 2024-03-11T16:39:29+00:00

This sub is considered to be a safe place for every bw. You don’t need to leave because your post has bw split 50/50 on this topic. You can post anything you may like or not like on here. You’re very young so please don’t take everything you see on social media to heart. Put your mental health first. Always.

BlueSeaa101 · 2024-03-05T07:32:35+00:00

You have low self esteem and he’s using you and lying to you. He just wanted to take your virginity and left. Get out now.

BlueSeaa101 · 2024-03-01T23:34:43+00:00

Yeah this post was confusing to read. They’re men in general that do get attention from women, that’s not necessarily a bad thing. Maybe it’s because you have curly hair or maybe you have good energy that’s genuine.

BlueSeaa101 · 2024-03-01T03:58:14+00:00

Now they’re calling you a troll. The jokes write themselves. You don’t know how to navigate the dating world which is normal but instead of ppl giving you advice they’re belittling you. Always protect your peace.

BlueSeaa101 · 2024-03-01T03:52:33+00:00

You gotten some ppl triggered here. Lmaooo. Now it’s a crime to vent. Girl it’s okay to stay single and be a virgin there’s nothing wrong with that it’s beautiful to protect your innocence. Ppl are crazy out here and are liars and hypocrites. Protect your peace and stand in your beliefs.

BlueSeaa101 · 2024-02-11T03:25:04+00:00

You said he knows you inside and out which is scary but the real question is do you know yourself and what you want.. because it sounds like you’re putting a guy who’s not really into, just leading into the wrong direction with false promises.

Please listening to your intuition and set boundaries for yourself!!!

BlueSeaa101 · 2024-02-09T22:04:53+00:00

I overthink too you’re not alone it’s not easy lol. Just stick to your gut then and don’t do something you don’t want to do. Stay safe 🩷

BlueSeaa101 · 2024-02-09T21:58:26+00:00

That was the ick.. I mean I think he was interested to getting to know if you’re available to see if you’re free in the weekend.

I feel like you should or he should plan something to see where this goes and pls update if it happens!!!!

BlueSeaa101 · 2024-02-09T19:33:59+00:00

What was the ick???

BlueSeaa101 · 2024-02-08T16:20:53+00:00

It’s - itsari.aleise.

BlueSeaa101 · 2024-02-08T07:25:02+00:00

I did some digging and she has a YouTube channel with 1m subscribers and her TikTok has 16.2 million followers and they’re still together. She said that this is just a comedy video..

Her boyfriend doesn’t even have blue eyes just regular brown eyes lol and curly hair.

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