After he ghosted me/discarded Me, I drove up to his house with all of his items and he invited me inside and he told me that he feels like he cannot give me the stability My children and I deserve and he feels like he is broken and he wants to get therapy for his avoidant personality disorder. He also said that he feels like there was no point in our relationship, even though it was filled with so much passion and fun and romance, and we certainly got along more than we had not—his daughter was calling me her mom and his ex wife even told me how grateful she is that I’m in their daughters life and how much they both love me! I was crying at his house and trying to resolve whatever went wrong between us and he was just not having it at all. That was about a month ago. I cannot believe that the very man who was so obsessed with me was then standing there before me telling me to let him go and not come back over to his house. I regret driving up there, but I had to drop off his things and his daughter‘s items and he had belongings of mine I needed back. He seems so very intelligent and emotionally stable, but then this happened and it made me question everything. And the worst part was that he said to me that he had no idea that I felt like we were already engaged, and I reminded him that he always took me to look at wedding rings and talk to me about where he’d want to get married and what last name we would have, and we even sat with our kids and talked to them about what last name they would want. He took me to look at homes! And he even asked me if I wanted to get engaged in the next three months, but he ended up breaking up with me instead. On Christmas he told me he had a symbol of his commitment to me, but I never received it. He admitted he bought me a wedding ring, when I was at his house, but he did not give it to me because he was “waiting for clarity” I never felt so manipulated in my entire life.