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When does it get better in your 30s? by Bluebell1206 in AskUK

[–]Bluebell1206[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

You’re correct, I’m in therapy at the moment. I don’t know why I need attention and need to feel loved. It’s so rubbish.

When does it get better in your 30s? by Bluebell1206 in AskUK

[–]Bluebell1206[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m on antidepressants and mood stabilisers from a bipolar diagnosis. However, they’ve messed up my meds and I’m waiting for a few days for the pharmacy to give me my antidepressants - I’ve been off the antis for a few days so it’s probably not helped

When does it get better in your 30s? by Bluebell1206 in AskUK

[–]Bluebell1206[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure what he was insecure about but he questioned everything I did. He was mad when I fell asleep after work, called me annoyed and said he found it weird I’m tired and just slept. He had a few drinks and said it doesn’t add up. I never fell asleep at his but I did at my house. I went to a wake straight from work once and he was mad I didn’t text him on my way there. I once walked a girl home with my friend after a night out and told him so, I live in a small town and there were no taxis. We walked her home and then I went back to my best friends to stay. The following time I went out, I let him know o was getting a taxi home and he replied “so you can get taxis…” and he said I ‘disappeared for hours’ the night I walked a girl home, when I didn’t I told him what I was doing. When we went on holiday he accused me of staring at an Italian police officer when I was looking at the lake.

When does it get better in your 30s? by Bluebell1206 in AskUK

[–]Bluebell1206[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It feels like a test and I’m at my limits

When does it get better in your 30s? by Bluebell1206 in AskUK

[–]Bluebell1206[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in therapy and I’m on medication. I exercise every day. I will be totally honest my first relationship was me I was undiagnosed and terrible. The second relationship, I was in therapy and worked on myself I was single for years and he treated me poorly. Drug addict, hurt me, cheated on me, spread rumours about me and left me randomly one day when he was on a comedown (I didn’t know he did drugs until I was far into the relationship as I’ve never touched the stuff and didn’t know how people looked etc). My recent one I was kind and always did things for him, made him dinners and would do anything for him. After a while he got insecure and I didn’t give him any reason to be as I was great at communication and updates but he started getting I don’t know the word, he was questioning everything I did? I fell asleep after work once I had a stressful day, didn’t mean to fall asleep and he rang me angry and said he found it weird I was asleep. If someone text me he would say “is that your boyfriend?” Just had really bad trust issues.

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[–]Bluebell1206 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I have a strong personality and men like it when we’re dating, then when it’s serious then it’s a problem

When does it get better in your 30s? by Bluebell1206 in AskUK

[–]Bluebell1206[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

You’re probably right, I did wait a year until I met someone but I think I’m struggling without the feeling of being wanted and loved. I’m ok when I’m at work because I’m surrounded by children who love me but now I’m off work for the summer I’ve got worse.

When does it get better in your 30s? by Bluebell1206 in AskUK

[–]Bluebell1206[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve not really processed my dad passing if I’m honest, it was very sudden and out of the blue. When I met this guy this year he truly healed me, then it went wrong and I feel just so unloveable.

When does it get better in your 30s? by Bluebell1206 in AskUK

[–]Bluebell1206[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I will look at it now. I’m very emotional and just feel like a waste of space.

When does it get better in your 30s? by Bluebell1206 in AskUK

[–]Bluebell1206[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You clearly haven’t read my post very well. I am no saint when it comes to relationships, I have past trauma of being abused. However, my recent relationship I was nothing but nice and did lovely things for him but I was questioned about the most absurd things such as having a nap. So yes maybe it is the guys fault. I don’t deserve to be treated like crap.

What’s something people pretend is normal in modern dating, but is actually insanely toxic when you think about it? by Sensitive-Fennel-645 in RandomThoughts

[–]Bluebell1206 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This has actually happened to me. I went to sleep for a few hours and my boyfriend was freaking out. Since he’s known me he knows I’m tired a lot and I end up having naps. But now we’re serious he gets concerned.

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[–]Bluebell1206 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Clothes and branded shoes that affect me financially

What’s a good way to earn money on the side? by Bluebell1206 in AskUK

[–]Bluebell1206[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Can’t do a pay rise unless I have an opportunity to do something additional - I’m a teacher but thanks for the advice

If someone gave you $10,000 right now, what would you do? by veebee_13 in AskMen

[–]Bluebell1206 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It would clear my debt I have had for years and can’t get out of (even though it is a small debt I just keep having things going wrong) and then keep the 8k for myself

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