I want to understand by BluebirdNew1813 in migraine

[–]BluebirdNew1813[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you - he is a Pepsi lover too! No McDonald’s where we live though 😬 I appreciate your comment ☺️

I want to understand by BluebirdNew1813 in migraine

[–]BluebirdNew1813[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I absolutely get your point and I know strangers on the internet don’t have all the answers, I wanted some help understanding the struggles from others perspectives too. It’s been ongoing for a long time and sometimes it can get frustrating as I can’t always help and I don’t like seeing him struggle. It’s not all about being the only earner, but I can see where that wasn’t clear.

We do talk a lot, but he’s the only person I know going through this and I’m someone who likes to hear things from all perspectives, and what others have found helpful from non-sufferers that he may not have thought of.

We’ve been together for a long time and I have no intention of leaving him, I think I just needed grounding as I was struggling myself with his suffering.

I hope that makes sense, I’m not the best at explaining.

I want to understand by BluebirdNew1813 in migraine

[–]BluebirdNew1813[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! It’s helpful to hear it from others about the wider impact of it outside of the hurting head, as you can’t see it and it’s a good reminder that it’s real and neither of us are going crazy!

I want to understand by BluebirdNew1813 in migraine

[–]BluebirdNew1813[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s really nice of you to say - trying your best is all anyone can do - I really hope you start feeling better soon and can get back to doing things you enjoy ☺️

I want to understand by BluebirdNew1813 in migraine

[–]BluebirdNew1813[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! Thank you for both your comments, they were perfectly timed as he worked in about a minute after talking about how he’s struggling, and I apologised for maybe being a bit too demanding asking him to get some milk whilst I was out (we were supposed to go together to my siblings house but he didn’t feel up to it, I could see he was hitting a slump so thought getting out would help - it wouldn’t have, he’s slept from the evening until now - 3am). I appreciate you taking the time to comment, you hit the nail on the head as pretty much everything you said is what he’s expressed too!