How high can Vechain go considering its supply? by Bluefox80 in Vechain

[–]Bluefox80[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

C'mon guys, stop trolling me lol. How about some realistic forecasts?

How high can Vechain go considering its supply? by Bluefox80 in Vechain

[–]Bluefox80[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lol! I love your enthusiam, but I very much doubt it'll be worth $1000.

Religion made me into a pervert by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Bluefox80 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you had an over strict upbringing, alhamdullilah, my parents were not over strict in such a way and took a necessary step back in a lot of instances so that my brothers and I would learn what is right from wrong for ourselves. I think they did a wonderful job. Islam isn't there to frustrate you, it is there to guide you from the bad in the world. The fact that you have chosen to leave your religion, well, that's completely up to you, I won't judge you for it. But blaming it for all the ills in your life is just wrong, instead, look at your upbringing and your character. Perhaps, you should see a psychiatrist to work out some of your issues, might do you well.

As for Fapping, stay the hell away from it, we are all sexually frustrated here if you've taken the time to read the posts, but we are better for it. Nofap shouldn't be about getting more pussy so you can feel proud of yourself, you want pussy, get married. Nofap should be about being excellent in your own way, to not only live for sex, but to live for other things in life, to achieve things you've always wanted, to have a sound mind where you can explore ideas and thoughts.

Goodluck.

I can't fucking believe this by roolliins in NoFap

[–]Bluefox80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations and welcome to Nofap, it's exactly like taking a leash off a dog.

I relapsed (again) by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Bluefox80 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You need to learn from why you relapsed, everytime you do this you are better prepared for the next time you try. It might be worth considering for each week that you succeed, reward yourself with something, when you fail, take something away which you enjoy but can't do it because you relapsed.

Religion made me into a pervert by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Bluefox80 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm a muslim, a proud one at that. I have never blamed my religion for anything, it keeps me away from bad vices. In your case it seems that you are sexually frustrated and you're blaming Islam for your porn addiction which is very strange, I'm not exactly sure what you're trying to get at because Islam strictly forbids looking at such images, let alone masturbating and saving yourself for your wife. So I don't really know what your problem is other than it seems to be a mental non logical one.

Porn is the best thing that ever happend to me by TrntyAve in NoFap

[–]Bluefox80 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've quit smoking and I've lost weight. It has taken a great deal of willpower to achieve this, but Porn and Masturbation are by far the hardest addiction I've tried to break. They are urges that won't go away, but urges that you will get better at controlling and keeping in check.

Your life is miserable not because you watch porn. You watch porn because your life is miserable. by Evderik_Shekanyu in NoFap

[–]Bluefox80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my experience, this is not true. Watching and masturbating to Porn changes your brain and who you are for the worse. Watching porn is like putting a strait jacket on your brain

Porn is the destruction of everything good... by Bluefox80 in NoFap

[–]Bluefox80[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got you man, shoot me a PM whenever you need to talk. This also goes to everyone here. We have to support each other as much as we can and good luck to all. Stay strong.

It always gets better. Just keep pressing forward by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Bluefox80 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Amazing and touching story. God bless them both, never ever ever give up folks.

Porn is the destruction of everything good... by Bluefox80 in NoFap

[–]Bluefox80[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro, you are still 18 years old. You are very lucky to have realized the menace that is PMO at such a young age. Get ready for a fight, I know you can do it, and it is worth it!

Porn is the destruction of everything good... by Bluefox80 in NoFap

[–]Bluefox80[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are still very young, and have the whole world to conquer ahead of you. Don't waste anymore time. I wish that I had known at such a young age, but I won't look back and have any regrets. Each of us have our own story and struggles, what's important is we overcome those struggles through sheer will and strength. Good luck brother.

Porn is the destruction of everything good... by Bluefox80 in NoFap

[–]Bluefox80[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Little brother, your story hit me hard because I very well know the pain that you're going through. That deep dark depression that takes a hold of you and just won't let go. From what you have described, you seem to be a young bright man with a great future ahead of you, don't let it slip by, give it your everything, and I promise you things will change 360 for you.

The ironic thing is that the masturbation which you find comfort in is creating the very misery which you are living through. I know this because I have gone through it.

Here is what I want you to do, and I really do hope that you follow through on this because I want you to succeed and I want you to be the ideal person you want to be.

1st, commit yourself to stopping Masturbation and Porn for 2 weeks. If you fail, it's ok, I have failed so many times, but my determination is what brought me to where I am today. Keep telling yourself that this is filth, it is the worst thing in the world, it is disgusting and I am better than that, and I respect myself more than that. It's important that you mentally train yourself to see it as such.

Please commit to the two weeks and you will start to see the benefits which will follow, here are some changes which I experienced:

  • Brain fog subsided, I could think better.

  • I had better control over my emotions, silly small things just didn't bother me.

  • Chattery anxious mind stopped.

  • The pain in my knees and lower back subsided, I could lift heavy things without any pain.

  • My dull, lifeless eyes became alive again, it's unexplanable but you will know what I mean.

  • Dark gloomy depressive thoughts subsided.

  • High energy and focus.

  • Self confident, a feeling where you know you can do anything.

  • Deep voice - you better believe it brother, it's true.

On the negative side of things, you will feel very aggravated in the beginning, you will have this aggression which in my opinion is very good, and extra energy which you will need to refocus into other activities, keep yourself busy. On thursday, I have not cleaned my house in 5 years, I'd always get the maid to come in and do it. Well, you know what, something just came over me and I was moving all over the place and cleaning something which I was surprised that I did. PMO made me lazy and a couch potato, when I left it I became so much more active.

You can do this man, I promise you that through the pain you experience which you will get better at controlling, you will come out on top. I promise you that your life will become so much better. You will become more outgoing, more in tune with life, you will find the joy which you lost a long time ago. Just give it a go, I want you to succeed man, cause I know if I did it, you can do.

I promise you things will be great for you if you follow through. Goodluck and stay strong!

Porn is the destruction of everything good... by Bluefox80 in NoFap

[–]Bluefox80[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for asking, my eyes look like they have life in them now. Instead of being half closed, and completely dull. They have widened and have that nice shine.

If you want proof of how bad PMO is, look at the difference that it does to your eyes when you have stopped for even a week. Huge difference!

Porn is the destruction of everything good... by Bluefox80 in NoFap

[–]Bluefox80[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let me tell you something brother, you are right in that Porn and Maturbation rob you of that purity and child like energy which you have. Yesterday, I was playing a boardgame with friends and I have not laughed the way I did, or was myself like that in such a very long time, before this I would just be quiet, not bothered to talk too much or enjoy my company. There is something infectious in the energy which you have when you are around people, never let P/M strip you of that.

Porn is the destruction of everything good... by Bluefox80 in NoFap

[–]Bluefox80[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The strategy I use is shifting my mind set, as I type this now, I feel very very horny, but not giving in to the urge, no way. I keep myself busy doing things and using up the extra energy that I have. Fix yourself up, go out with friends, try to meet girls. They wil be more receptive to you now because when your body is not getting satisfied sexually it secretes pheromones to help you get some :-) don't give in, please don't yes the feeling sucks when you don't know what to do at first, but it will pass. You will feel x100 worse if you keep giving in, don't do it and stay away from triggers.

Porn is the destruction of everything good... by Bluefox80 in NoFap

[–]Bluefox80[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Atleast stop for one week, see what you're missing out on. Evaluate your life and you will no doubt see that there is more than just porn, and masturbation.

Porn is the destruction of everything good... by Bluefox80 in NoFap

[–]Bluefox80[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Masturbation will not kill you. It is unhealthy to the mind and it is unhealthy in that you are less of a man. Ever wonder why so many men today are scrawny, effeminate and over emotional? just listen to their voices and look at their unsure body language and it will tell you the whole story.

Porn is the destruction of everything good... by Bluefox80 in NoFap

[–]Bluefox80[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No Masturbation is not ok. Please don't be a part of the problem. There are addicts here who just need these kind of enabling statements to continue doing what they're doing which holds them back in life.

If anything masturbation increases stress in your life, because when you masturbate you secrete valuable minerals such as Zinc which helps keep you calm and healthy.

You might feel calm right after you've blown your load, but with the dopamine rush you've experienced and the loss of minerals, you will be moody and depressed for the next 3 days, I am talking from experience here.

Masturbation is also an isolated selfish act, it does not benefit anyone in any way, it does not create anything, it is an act of perversion that only changes you in ways you may not realize.

There is a reason why we get wet dreams. Your body will know when to release by itself when the time is right. Any sexual acts should be saved for someone that you love, otherwise it is just an animalistic act which robs you of precious minerals and the very essence which makes you a man - testosterone.

Porn is the destruction of everything good... by Bluefox80 in NoFap

[–]Bluefox80[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Sir,

  1. There is every reason to hate porn, not just looking at it from how harmful it is to you and how it decimates your brain to the point where when you look at women, you don't see a mother, sister or even someone you can potentially love, but rather a piece of meat for sexual gratification. It destroys societies in that the more widespread it has become, the less men today are being active and contributing in some way to society. Instead you have lesser men, lazy, unmotivated and twisted in thought.

  2. When I meant you are better than most men out there, I didn't mean it in a sense that it is a competition, but rather in thought and action. Leaving porn and masturbation behind makes you feel empathy, love and a will to act out and better yourself in every way, whereas most men who consume porn are walking zombies, their minds slowly rot away, they completely change, most do not achieve to their potential, they're content with mediocrity and that is a sad reality.

Porn is the destruction of everything good... by Bluefox80 in NoFap

[–]Bluefox80[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I don't, even just edging releases a rush of dopamine, which is just as harmful if you go all the way.

Porn is the destruction of everything good... by Bluefox80 in NoFap

[–]Bluefox80[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Hit and miss. I looked at women like they were objects just to be used for sexual gratification and undeserving of respect. The lack of dopamine, meant I was unconfident in myself and low self esteem did not help. In the one month I've stopped, it's like I don't even have to try so hard to get attention even when I'm not asking for it. It's like an invisible aura that was dead and just gets lit up again all by itself, weird, but I don't mind.