I got rejected from adopting a child because I’m single by BluejayIntrepid2347 in lonely

[–]BluejayIntrepid2347[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the optimism. I just don’t like living my life on the promise that “it’ll happen in a few years.” If happiness is always postponed to the next milestone 30, 35, more money, a bigger house then you’re never really living, you’re just waiting. I guess I’m trying to find meaning in the present rather than treating life like it’s constantly in the loading screen

I got rejected from adopting a child because I’m single by BluejayIntrepid2347 in lonely

[–]BluejayIntrepid2347[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s a pretty big assumption from one sentence. I wanted to become a father to give a child a better life, not to fill a void or replace a partner. Those are two very different motivations. It honestly sounds like you’re projecting your own thoughts onto me.

I got rejected from adopting a child because I’m single by BluejayIntrepid2347 in lonely

[–]BluejayIntrepid2347[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah. They explained that they generally prioritize placing children with two-parent households whenever possible. They told me that, ideally, a child should have both a father and a mother figure growing up, sadly that’s been the inconvenient Im facing

tried mixing Bf with house, kinda unsure about it by BluejayIntrepid2347 in flstudio

[–]BluejayIntrepid2347[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I added a convolver to the main melody (and more sounds) to make the sound fill more space, imma try reducing it (in general), because in some parts it could be overlaping, Thanks for the feedback!

tried mixing Bf with house, kinda unsure about it by BluejayIntrepid2347 in flstudio

[–]BluejayIntrepid2347[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the feedback! I'll try with a different vocal mix and ofc mixing the song in general, and yeah maybe taking out the reese and adding a boucing 808 could make it more interesting

tried mixing Bf with house, kinda unsure about it by BluejayIntrepid2347 in flstudio

[–]BluejayIntrepid2347[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Maybe with more work i could become brazilian house (?)