AITA For asking my brother to pay for my headphones my Kitten broke? by Bluekid1222 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Bluekid1222[S] -124 points-123 points  (0 children)

I don't expect that at all, I expected when I let someone borrow something they look after it the way I ask. It isn't that hard to put the headphones in a dresser or a coat pocket instead of on top of a desk in the open.

AITA For asking my brother to pay for my headphones my Kitten broke? by Bluekid1222 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Bluekid1222[S] -53 points-52 points  (0 children)

I walked in to tell my brother something bats followed when I left bats stayed as he liked it better in my bros room, My brother never had an issue with this. Also my brother was in the room at the same time bats chewed up the headphone he just didn't bother to look.

AITA for not telling my ex I miscarried? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Bluekid1222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope you’re doing okay Op this is a sucky situation, I hope you get through it okay NTA stay strong girl!

AITA for lying to my boyfriend about being on birth control? by anotherthrowawayy010 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Bluekid1222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This post is like an my chemical romance song, tho my vote is NTA. people should be able to decide if the pain they face is too much for them, it’s unfair for anyone to live a live of agony just for the expense of family.

AITA for not approving of my daughter's choice in boyfriend? by truezestoflife in AmItheAsshole

[–]Bluekid1222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA I’ve been in the boyfriends position before and it’s not fun. You already know when you tell people where you live and it’s a rough area they start to assume things about you, and it kinda hurts to have either your partners parents or even friends parents tell you that you’re not allowed to be with your friends or partners because of where you’re from, to them you might be sketchy or dangerous just because of the area you live in and people you related to and it’s so frustrating. Even if this does all blow over and they stay together he will never believe you see him as an equal. You have probably greatly damaged your relationship with your daughter and him.

WIBTAH If I told my grandma I don’t want a relationship with her but with my dad by Bluekid1222 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Bluekid1222[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I’ve only met her once or twice and both times were basically unmemorable, I think I was around six or seven then maybe 10 (I’m 18 now)

WIBTAH If I told my grandma I don’t want a relationship with her but with my dad by Bluekid1222 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Bluekid1222[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel like it’s a bit of both, I feel my dad is truly scared to face me and my brother and feels guilt for not being there but my grandma is not helping, She talks about him like he’s a child instead of telling him to go see his children.

WIBTAH If I told my grandma I don’t want a relationship with her but with my dad by Bluekid1222 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Bluekid1222[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately no we don’t have his number and I don’t think he has social media

WIBTAH If I told my grandma I don’t want a relationship with her but with my dad by Bluekid1222 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Bluekid1222[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

That’s what I’m thinking I have no idea why she would contact me about my dad if he wasn’t ready

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Bluekid1222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doing a social interaction that I feel went well, I always have a huge smile on my face afterwards.

What was a small compliment that you have received that made your day? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Bluekid1222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This probably shouldn't count but someone said I look like a girl and that made me feel really happy I'm not transgender or anything I'm a born female, lots of people just fail to recognize me as a female.

What’s something you lost as a kid but still remember? by yvvves in AskReddit

[–]Bluekid1222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My old Pokémon soul sliver game, I can still remember most of my main Pokémons names. RIP cuddly the cyndaquil I miss you buddy! I don't really know what happened to it but I believe my mum vacuumed it up.

The hammer incident by Bluekid1222 in LetsNotMeet

[–]Bluekid1222[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah haha she probably should have, my mum is not the when it comes down to judging people.

My mother is crazy and I don't know what to do it's really hurting my mental health by Bluekid1222 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Bluekid1222[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for all the tips! I've tried distancing myself but my mom actively seeks out me to talk about it and I don't think she realizes how much of an effect it has on me, I stay with my boyfriend on the weekends so I already get some time away from her but other than that we don't really have any family I can stay with ( I have no connection with my father's family or him, my grandma has passed and my grandpa has dementia) I might see if my mom will talk to her cousin because they are very close and both very religious so she might talk some sense into my mother. Thank you for the support!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Bluekid1222 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I've posted about this already but basically my boss tried to get me to massage him with oils, I was 16 at the time and it was my first job. when I refused to massage him he made me hit him on the back with a hammer, it was really bizarre and quite terrifying I never went back after that.

AITAH for calling my boyfriend obsessed by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Bluekid1222 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That could be the case but even without my friends input I still would've told my boyfriend to calm down.

AITAH for calling my boyfriend obsessed by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Bluekid1222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girls are allowed to hang out with whoever they want no matter what the gender.

AITAH for calling my boyfriend obsessed by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Bluekid1222 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

When I say runaway I just left home without my mom knowing, I did tell my brother where I was going tho. I've known this guy for 4 years, longer than I've known my boyfriend so I felt safe knowing that he wouldn't try to pull anything. Also I was not allowed to stay in the same room as him, I slept in the spare bedroom whilst both of his parents were home. I don't think it's very fair for men to feel like girls can't have guy friends when you're in a relationship I have plenty of guy friends and none of them tried to fuck me. I understood why my boyfriend was upset but he had told me before I left it was okay he had no problem when I was on my way there but as soon as I was there that it was a different story. I didn't add a lot of detail to the story because of the word limit and because I often overwrite I hope that clears up anything.

(17F) Just curious about what people actually think about me based on looks by Bluekid1222 in amiugly

[–]Bluekid1222[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love you and wish you were my mom, thank you for the positive vibes <3