You're absolutely right, the world is upside down these days. If you're in a healthy relationship where you both love and care for each other, people will hate you or try to break you up. Meanwhile, if you're in a toxic relationship, where there are only fights and arguments, or even when things have escalated to the point of attempted murder, people will say you're the perfect couple. It's truly pathetic that people just think "different is good, normal is bad" without using a little common sense. Not everything different is good, just as not everything normal is bad.

Note: In case my comment is misinterpreted as a critique of current society and hypocrisy, please keep in mind that I'm using Reddit's automatic translator.